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[–] greenskye@lemm.ee 51 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I really don't understand how people who are reasonably devout followers of different religions ever end up together. Almost all of them make it against the rules or at least extremely problematic. Why would you marry someone that your religion says is going to hell because they don't believe what you do? And if you do it anyway, why would you stay in that religion? Makes no sense.

[–] g8phcon2@teacup.social 12 points 11 months ago

as someone from a mixed marriage, I can say: (1.) The heart does what the heart wants; (2.) There can be reasons political, economic, for family, etc.

[–] Lepsea@sh.itjust.works 9 points 11 months ago

It's because "I can fix them"

[–] ScrambleVerdict@monyet.cc 31 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Wait doesn't that mean your mom goes to hell? According to her own religion that is?

[–] Squorlple@lemmy.world 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

People are allowed to break the rules of their own religion at their convenience but other people must always abide by those rules. “It’s ok when I do it”, so to speak.

[–] g8phcon2@teacup.social 2 points 11 months ago

there is certainly too much of this these days. I can only speak for myself but I try to live my interaction with others in a more libertarian manner, while trying to hold high moral standards for myself, but I fail regularly. I particularly struggle with attempting to balance what I believe my religion teaches regarding raising my family with the faith, while still respecting their rights and autonomy as individuals.

[–] g8phcon2@teacup.social 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

There are multiple schools of thought on that.

[–] Nice_Melt_Pleb@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Including whether hell even exists

[–] rustycheesi3@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

an protestant women doesnt go to hell either, if she is preaching. even if the biggest group in her religion is telling that.

[–] g8phcon2@teacup.social 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

If by "the biggest group in her religion" you are referring to the Catholic Church, that's not true. While it certainly would be a mortal sin, really all of Protestantism is heretical, but the Chruch does not condemn any individual to hell. In fact, as St. John Paul the Great tells us "We know that hell exists because Jesus told us it does, but we don't know for sure if anyone is there" If she was unrepentant prior to her death, she would likely spend some time in purgatory, but I suspect less time than I will spend in purgatory, as I should know better to avoid serious sin than she does based on her raisin'.

[–] dragnucs@lemmy.ml 18 points 11 months ago (5 children)

Wait, muslim women cannot marry non Muslim men. What's the deal?

[–] Hegar@kbin.social 43 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Turns out most humans just do things.

[–] callouscomic@lemm.ee -4 points 11 months ago

Do you realize you have just singlehandedly explained the Israel-Hamas situation and we can all stop arguing and pretending to be experts about it?

[–] Custoslibera@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago
[–] photonic_sorcerer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Everyone deals with their religion differently

[–] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

When I was a somewhat devout JW (people often say Jehovah Witness as a noun, but that always bugged me grammatically since properly stated it should be "Witness of Jehovah), I told a nonJW Christian friend that I couldn't be "unevenly yoked with unbelievers." She (who wasn't interested in me, she was trying to matchmake me with a mutual friend) got offended since we should all have been Christians and she felt I was calling her an unbeliever.

Certain denominations have so very different beliefs that if followed to their logical conclusions they shouldn't be able to have relationships, but so many people bend the rules. I fortunately am no longer captive to that ideology, though I do think I'm permanently damaged. Still, not as damaged as people who went through sexual abuse. My stuff is mostly mental and will probably just mean I'll never have a romantic relationship.

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

It's not "the same", but I've been reading Joe vs Elan School and it's really made me feel better about the shit I went through to read someone else's story, you should check it out if you think it could help you, plus it's just a great story.

[–] joranvar@feddit.nl 2 points 11 months ago

Maybe he married her, instead of the other way around.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago

Turns out people don't always follow every single rule their religion has.

[–] Thorman1@lemm.ee 15 points 11 months ago

Has there ever been a video found along with this meme template?