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Lemme prephrase this with one simple comment: I have absolutely no idea what I am doing and this entry into the Fediverse is about to be a total trainwreck.

That being said...

Hi! I'm Stella, and I just joined this instance to see who could I talk to.

Young adult Asexual MtF uh... programmer question mark? Anxious Plays Minecraft Trying to escape the closet

As I said before, I have no idea what I am doing, and this is possibly going to be the norm for a while.

I hope I can meet some of y'all soon!

(oh and sorry if this isnt where I should be posting an intro I am confusion and howdy hasnt seen posts for over a month aaa)

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[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Intro posts are absolutely allowed here :) welcome to the fediverse Stella!! Hope you're having a great week.

[–] sapphire_stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Thank you! (⌒‿⌒) It's been an all around week, some scares, some ups, some downs. You?

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hunting for a new apartment and enjoying the new FF14 patch :) getting into the spirit of the spooky season with a re-watch of over the garden wall with my partner this weekend.

Ohh, sounds nice! Best of wishes! (^▽^)

[–] TheKracken@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hey Stella! As a cis male that doesn't really understand anything about trans, I want to say welcome and I'm an ally. I hope you get everything you need and the support you deserve. If you need any programing advice just ask!

Haii! Thanks for being supportive! I'll be sure to tell you if I need help! <(^-^)>

[–] Alicecisnt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Hi Stella! The fediverse is very confusing and not at all user-friendly, so don't worry too much.

I'm a late 20s transfem trucker and I'm between names at the moment. Do you like cats? I have four of them.

[–] sapphire_stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Heya! (*^▽^*) I like cats a lot! Only thing is the anxiety telling me they gonna bite...

[–] Alicecisnt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Nice! They shouldn't bite unless a particular one is a bastard or you try to grab them when they don't want to be grabbed. Sometimes they are just grumpy and will give a warning nibble.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] sapphire_stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Thank you! (^‿^)

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

hi stella why did you steal my name

[–] sapphire_stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Aaaa I'm sorry! I didn't mean to! (*/_\) In all seriousness, nice to meet someone else called Stella!

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

yeah! usually theyre all just called luna and i feel special for having picked the other type of celestial object to name myself after :p

how did you decide on your name?

[–] sapphire_stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly? It was a combo of a video game character translated into Spanish, my love of the stars and screwing around until I found out.

[–] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

that sounds very nice, glad you found something youre happy with <3

[–] BongRipsMcGee420@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Howdy! (⌒‿⌒)

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Welcome aboard! Yes, this is a perfect place to introduce yourself to our community.

Thank you! I should warn ahead that I have no idea of how to use the Fediverse... this should be interesting if nothing else. Nice to meet ya! (´▽`)

[–] Lumelore@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Want to play Minecraft sometime?

[–] sapphire_stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe one of these days! For now I'm still a bit shy... (〃>_<;〃)

[–] Lumelore@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was shy for a long time, so I understand how it is. If you ever feel like playing Minecraft with someone just let me know but if you don't that's okay too.

[–] NoStressyJessie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’d love a Blahaj minecraft server too!

[–] Nikki@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

hi stella, that is a pretty name!! enjoy your new discovery, there is much to learn about yourself:3

Thanks! It sure has been a journey ( ̄︶ ̄)

[–] Azrat@troet.cafe 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hello! o(^▽^)o

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sorry, I just thought of this scene! Jokes aside, hey Stella, it’s nice to meet you :) I’m also a programmer-ish and play Minecraft.

LMAOOO I was not expecting that! (⌒▽⌒)☆ Nice to meet you too Norah!