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!I got better for a little while, but I realized I still look awful, dieiting seems kinda out of reach and also I feel like hrt can't fix me. I'm broke and getting off hrt is likely a good idea, tonight I'm gonna stop taking hrt. I'm gonna repost this on some truscum sunreddit cause while I disagree with them on nearly everything I feel like I do look creepy and I don't need love I deserve to be put in my place

https://imgur.com/a/S3LcFxO

as you can clearly see the first two are most accurate the others are angles and tricks

I'm a liar

!<

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[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago

Sky I am so sorry your dysphoria feels this way. It's an illusion and you look good. Don't put yourself through that hateful bullshit.

[–] the_best_nerd@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago

I literally go to college with a cis woman who looks like you. To say the least, she is well-loved. Don't beat yourself up over your looks.

[–] Mandarbmax@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Dude chill, you seem like you are having a mental health at the moment but you seriously don't look that bad. You don't look super conventional but also you don't look awful or anything either. You just look like some random girl. It is all fine.

[–] skymtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

I'm just tired of hating who I see in pictures or in the mirror

[–] UsernameNumber@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wish I could make things better for you, and I hope you find yourself one way or another, but for whatever it's worth I will say this: daaaaamn you have amazing hair! I wish mine had that kind of volume!

I wish I had hair on my head 🥺

[–] Neato@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You look great. Everyone thinks they look worse than they really do. We are our own worst critics.

I like your hair! It's very similar to mine and I hope I can get mine grown out that long.

[–] skymtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Its just I feel like only the first and second photo are realistic, and the others are highly unreasltic. I hate how I look in the first photo, and pretty much the same goes for the second too. When people say they all look good it hurts cause it proves myself right. I hate them!!

[–] skymtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Them as in the first two photos

[–] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hey, if you ever need to talk, we're here for you. You're far from alone and felt the same way as you in year 1-2 on hrt

[–] skymtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

I just feel awful, I feel like I'm a frakenstien of male fat mixed with low tier effects from E, I look so awful!!!