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oldie meme but needed to bring this back due to recent incidents 😭

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[–] sexy_peach@feddit.org 1 points 54 minutes ago

You hate Lemmy????!

[–] Bamboodpanda@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

I'm convinced that most people don't read anything before sharing their opinion. An opinion with zero relevance or weight is absolutely useless.

[–] conartistpanda@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah but I preffer the pineapple before the pizza, that way the mass feels saltier.

[–] JargonWagon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

So you hate pepperoni?!

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 1 points 2 hours ago
[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

In my experience, this happens way less on Lemmy than on Reddit before the IPO.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

i can’t speak to the frequency but the tone is definitely different when it happens here compared to on reddit, probably influenced by the demographic and field of interest differences. the ml roots of the place really have echoed throughout the tone of the space, so most of the arguments have a really cynical, high alert, almost superstitious affect to them that i never really encountered on reddit. (some random account i thought i was cool with is trying to like psychoanalyze my recent posts to find my true intentions? i gave up on that convo)

your mileage may vary, of course!

your mileage may vary, of course!

Blocking all of .ml makes your experiences vastly more pleasant

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 1 points 1 hour ago

laughs in tumblr

[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I think it can be important to see the intent behind words and ask for clarifications. Oftentimes people are not direct about their opinions.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 2 points 1 hour ago

yuh, totally! i even experienced an example of your counterexample recently https://lemmy.cafe/post/10752342/8934173

egg on my face, i guess i worded a meme so badly it gave 180 degrees the opposite impression (to some). was super thankful to this user for being transparent and helping me identify what part to edit.

[–] JayDee@lemmy.world 12 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

TBF, I understand this annoying kind of 'reading into it'. at the same time, if someone starts dropping dogwhistles or starts dancing around something in a convo, i am definitely gonna read into that shit.

[–] Entropywins@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

If you don't like waffles just say it...

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

So you admit that you're checking me out? And you wanna mate?

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Oh sorry I was making a reference to Xavier: Renegade Angel, where Xavier somehow misinterprets the phrase "Checkmate" to be a proposition for sex, from a clone of himself. (One of those.. "Did I watch this at 3am one night or was that a fever dream?" shows)

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 1 points 2 hours ago

bwahahaha good to clarify i would never have guessed that

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 13 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

This is anywhere on the internet.

[–] IAmVeraGoodAtThis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

This is anywhere, period. You can do that with letters, you can do that with speeches, or in casual conversations.

And you're not always wrong about it either.

If you've played Disco Elysium, "Welcome to Revachol". If you haven't, play it. It's an amazing game

This is just text written anywhere. There's an art to making yourself understood in different contexts.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

yeah :p bit of a hyperbolic statement my fault

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 2 points 6 hours ago

Well, the original post was as well, so fair enough!

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Me when I talk to my wife...

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 3 points 4 hours ago (2 children)
[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 4 minutes ago

It's okay 😁 we're both very open about, and aware of, this issue. So I just let her know it's happening and we giggle about it (sometimes). πŸ˜„

[–] parity@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Idk, she's super cool to me.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 3 minutes ago

πŸ˜† top notch willful misinterpretation πŸ‘Œβœ¨

[–] socsa@piefed.social 42 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Me: "I like pancakes"

Lemmy: "Only a shitlib western imperialist would think that. Read more Lenin."

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 18 points 11 hours ago

Me: β€œI like waffles”

Lemmy: β€œHOW THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO GO MY LIFE WITHOUT PANCAKES YOU OPPRESSIVE INSENSITIVE FUCK”

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[–] renrenPDX@sh.itjust.works 15 points 11 hours ago (16 children)

What…. This is on par with any kind of internet discourse. It’s pretty much why I hardly ever post prior to Lemmy. It doesn’t matter how well articulated the post, SOMEONE will find the need to correct or clarify unnecessarily.

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