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[–] Vaggumon@lemm.ee 77 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For my brother, it let him openly be sexist, racist, homophobic, anti-trans, and hateful. I haven't spoke to him since 2017 when we got into a big fight and he said some pretty horrid things about my wife.

[–] electrogamerman@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'll never understand the mind of those people. I mean granted I'm gay, so I guess I'm more empathic to minorities, but if I was a straight, white, cis man, what would I win with hating these groups or what would I lose by letting these groups exist?

[–] Gumbyyy@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

I'm a straight, white, cis man and I don't understand it either.

Like the lawn sign in front of my friends' house says: "More rights for others doesn't mean less for you. It's not a pie."

[–] LogarithmicCamel@feddit.uk 7 points 1 year ago

Everyone likes to feel superior in some way. To a lot of people, they were born superior, especially those who feel like they are not important in any other way.

[–] Redditgee@lemmy.world 76 points 1 year ago

"Donald Trump is a poor man’s idea of a rich man, a weak man’s idea of a strong man, and a dumb man’s idea of a smart man.”

[–] Candelestine@lemmy.world 67 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Authoritarianism in general has a certain appeal in how much it simplifies life. In a liberal society, life is more difficult and complicated, as each person bears a certain measure of responsibility for learning about and understanding a broad variety of issues, if they want to be a responsible voter.

Authoritarianism removes this complication. If you just want to live your life on a sort of auto-pilot, without having to wrestle with a constantly changing world, then you can just let some authoritarian take care of all of that for you. So long as they sound like you want your leader to sound, you can fall into their trap.

Works great for simplifying things. Everyone would probably be authoritarian if it actually produced good results. Except it just doesn't, history has pretty clearly demonstrated that it quickly runs out of steam, stagnates and then decays, where more liberal societies remain more competitive and innovative for much longer.

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is exactly it and thank you for expaining it so well.

The desire for simple explanations, from an inability to understand complexity but also from fear of what seems like chaos, is also what underpins a lot of religious belief out there: life is a lot less scary and simpler if everything without an easy explanation is explained by being the will of a god or pantheon.

Hence why if you engage the populists (not just of the Right) in conversation pretty much everything boils down to a world view of black and white with no greys, "my side" vs "the other side", no subtlety, no empathic understanding and so on.

Mind you, in some countries with voting systems rigged to enforce a power duopoly like the US, this kind of thinking has been activelly promoted as normal since forever because it justifies the power duopoly in the eyes of most people (if you think human problems are two-sided, two-sided politics looks like a reasonable way of allocating power, rather than looking like an anti-democractic suppression of most options), so it's hardly unexpected that they're the most fertile fields for populists preaching simple "explanations" and simple "solutions".

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[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 42 points 1 year ago

“If he can be rich and powerful by hating all these people, perhaps there’s a chance for me?”

[–] theluddite@lemmy.ml 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

We live in a vast digital spectacle, but we don't participate in the spectacle -- we consume it. Since nothing is real anymore, since our entire reality only exists through digital media, and since we have absolutely no agency, why not vote for a shit-poster for president? It's fun as hell to watch him troll all those tedious snobs in DC. Fuck those guys.

Then enough people voted for him that something incredible happened. He won. That wasn't supposed to happen! For once, something changed, and everyone who voted for him was a part of that change.

Actually accomplishing something is fucking intoxicating. It's so easy to get hooked on that heady feeling of mattering at all for once in our pathetic, powerless, alienated existences as cogs in a giant wasteful plastic machine. We spend months, then years, then decades drifting without meaning, working jobs we hate, taking our kids to shitty day cares we can barely afford, waiting 19 month to see a doctor about that new weird lump, and so on.

For these people, reality has never been so real. They're actually in it now, doing things. They've chosen a new content-creator-in-chief, and they want his content to take over the whole spectacle.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

Well fuckin' said. It's all so tragic.

[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 35 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

Back in the 2016 election when he had just announced his candidacy, I recall being semi-interested in him after the first GOP debate, based strictly on his performance. His policies already sounded like racist trash (building the wall), BUT the appeal I saw from him was his apparent independent nature. He was a billionaire that wasn’t beholden to anybody, he could potentially reshape how everything was done in Washington, which has become so dysfunctional. He could work with both Democrats and Republicans (he was friends with the Clintons after all), maybe he was just running Republican, but he’d veer to the center after getting elected.

Obviously none of that came to pass and he’s just a fucking grifter who tried to become a dictator, but at the time that was the potential he had. It was an election where everybody wanted somebody who would make a big change. Sanders was far and above the best candidate to “shake things up” in DC, but then Democrats went with the most establishment candidate they could find.

[–] towerful@programming.dev 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I heard a lot of rhetoric (on Reddit) along the lines of "yeh, we've had politicians. What if we need a business man? Trump can run it like a business and make it efficient".

Seemed fairly logical to me. As a non-american I hadn't heard of him, wasn't hugely into politics (let alone American politics).

I remember chatting with mates, and it came up, so I mentioned that perspective. Thankfully, they called me an idiot, described the actual character of trump, and why that was a terrible idea.
It wasn't difficult to corroborate what they said, and suddenly the whole facade fell away in front of me. That coincided with t_d taking over Reddit, and it became painfully obvious none of it was in good faith nor organic.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Did no one pay attention to the news when he was just a real estate grifter? From a decade before, he was clearly without integrity, clearly skating across the line of legal, clearly not dealing fairly with those he did business with, clearly acting mostly in service to his own ego. I do see the appeal of a businessman to lead the country but not that approach to business

[–] towerful@programming.dev 6 points 1 year ago

I never saw any of that.
2016 was a bit of a political awakening for me (well, maybe 2014, but it was a slow start).
I'm not from America so "Real Estate Crook" never crossed my path

[–] GiddyGap@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

then Democrats went with the most establishment candidate they could find.

Yeah, I'm really hoping for some more interesting Dem options soon. Probably not going to happen in 2024, but I'm hopeful for 2028. Biden has gotten a lot done, and I'm really thankful he has brought some decency and normalcy to the WH, but I'm still looking forward to other options.

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[–] pornhubfan@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

He's the only one who can stop the Clintons and other satanic reptilians from consuming fetus juice in pizza parlor basements.

[–] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am so sick of this. If I want to consume Fizza (fetus pizza) then it is my God given right as an American!

[–] Oyster_Lust@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I believe Fizza is forbidden in the Bible.

[–] Perfide@reddthat.com 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No, that was feet stuff. Feet stuff is forbidden in the bible. Easy mistake to make, they sound the same when you say it fast.

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Not in my Bible!

[–] kandoh@reddthat.com 19 points 1 year ago

Rural people bitter at their lack of cultural influence in mainstream culture think he's their ticket to social control

[–] Muzukun@yiffit.net 17 points 1 year ago (31 children)

My guitar instructor first voted for Obama and then for trump. I think it came down to guns, increasing cost of living and generally just growing to hate democrats? He doesn't hate me (knows I'm pretty liberal, but also I'll bitch about democrats in a heartbeat). Spoke with his wife (much more level headed) and it seems... A tone of defeat? Cost of living is high, hard to raise a family on a set income, and for them Trump represented someone who would change things instead of the usual status quo represented by the democrats and the usual GOP. I think it is that, guns, and he is not really wanted by either party so they like him. He's not a politician.

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[–] TootSweet@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The Trump supporter I know thinks the government is run by tall white alien Democrats that rape children and drink theri adrenal fluid to stay young and that Trump has been arresting all of said tall white alien Democrats for crimes against children.

Or at least that's what he told me when last I was still on speaking terms with him.

If you want more insight into how Trump appeals to some people, I can recommend Ian Danskin's work about the alt-right. This is a good video to start with.

[–] ineedaunion@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

The Trump supporter I know is a store manager at a Home Depot and raped an underaged cashier. HR and Corporate protected him.

[–] eran_morad@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

As ever, the appeal behind fascists is pussy bitches blaming "others" for their miserable failures in life.

[–] angstylittlecatboy@reddthat.com 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I say this as someone who hates the man: At the time of the 2016 election, he was the most energetic politician of my lifetime. You could see that he excited his audience, people got caught up. And this was the party that usually has the less charismatic politicians.

It was also that Americans were sick of politics as usual. That's also what drove Bernie Sanders' momentum.

[–] Snapz@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

I think one of the major thoughts goes like this, somewhere deep inside, "If he's an obvious idiot and a criminal, and he's still a wealthy person and president, that means I COULD BE PRESIDENT PROBABLY IF I WANTED TO!!! I just don't want to, I want to eat these Cheetos... but good to know I have the option."

Also, just straight racism/sexism. Having an avatar to allow you to not feel guilt/shame for the parts of your personality that you know are rotten and wrong.

[–] Dick_Justice@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

People are stupid and terrible, so he gives them someone they can relate to.

[–] Commiunism@lemmy.wtf 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm an European, so american politics are quite alien to me, but back in 2016 when the whole pre-election period was happening, there constantly were posts by the media and just people in general on reddit saying how Trump is bad, how he's going to ruin US, how he'll never win against Hillary, I couldn't help but root for him as he was the clear underdog.

Couldn't help but root for him due to that, I guess, though I don't think this applies to the present day, as the whole meme is over.

[–] Kernal64@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm pretty sure you could help but root for him. It seems a simple decision not to root for a blithering, hateful idiot. I'm pretty sure no one was forcing you to cheer on a dumpster fire like that guy. Just because someone's an underdog doesn't mean they're deserving of your consideration. Remember kids, fascism isn't a meme.

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[–] GiddyGap@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

I couldn't help but root for him as he was the clear underdog.

With everything that has happened since, are you still rooting for him? If so, why?

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