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Since the lemmy.world admins here are refusing to clarify their own rules, selectively enforcing their vague rules, using communities for user counts before banning them and just being, well, spez-like, it's time to find a new home.

So far, I am liking lemmy.ml, but I still have a list I am going through.

Where are you going?

Oh, before you go, make sure to file a CCPA or GDPR data deletion request. If they are so inclined to "stay legal", they can start with those items.

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[–] PartyCat@lemmy.best 35 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Start your own instance. Then it's the best™

[–] kibiz0r@midwest.social 7 points 1 year ago

Not with this soggy sock running it.

[–] Maddie@sh.itjust.works 25 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I went with sh.itjust.works personally, mostly because I liked the name, it's been good so far

[–] thoomfish@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That was my first choice, but shit didn't just work, and I never got my verification email.

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[–] Flaky@iusearchlinux.fyi 4 points 1 year ago

Same thing for me with iusearchlinux.fyi, but before joining I had to leave lemmy.world after I had issues logging in. I could reset my password and login that way but I couldn't actually login using the form. It was an issue lemmy.world had at the time, but not iusearchlinux.fyi

[–] TheAndrewBrown@lemm.ee 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lemm.ee has been working well for me, but I haven’t been paying too much attention to the admins. I mostly left lemmy.world because of the downtime

[–] OverfedRaccoon@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

Yep, lemm.ee was my alt for when lemmy.world was down. Decided to go ahead and just make it my main account.

[–] AnonymousLlama@kbin.social 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The vast majority of comments in here seem to be focused on the attitude of "why you trying to start shit"

But legitimately from an outside presiding perspective, which instances have people found to be decent, there seems to be a heap of Lemmy instances, each with their own rules and vibes, so what's the go?

[–] Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The usual resource is to look at https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/list, filter by 1m, and then have a look at the top 20.

spez-like

That's probably the biggest insult you can say ton any person on this platform

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[–] gabe@literature.cafe 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Neon@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

me on my way to join your instance

[–] gabe@literature.cafe 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You are more than welcome to! We have so.. much.. books.

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[–] mar4e@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've chosen lemm.ee from the beginning. I like it so far.

[–] Blamemeta@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

Me too. Its better. No downtime, no arbritary defeds.

[–] ijeff@lemdro.id 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This is new territory for most instance admin and a volunteer effort. If you haven't already, I'd encourage you to consider sharing constructive feedback with them as a first step instead.

As for finding new instances, it's generally recommended to visit https://join-lemmy.org/instances.

[–] Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Interesting point to say they are spez-like while they just want to comply with local regulations

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[–] Shortstack@reddthat.com 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The real answer is to have multiple accounts spread around on different servers just in case one server goes tits up or bans content you like to see. You should be treating accounts here as having a limited shelf life anyway for good internet hygiene purposes.

[–] LennethBright@artemis.camp 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Also so you don't lose your subscribed list. Though it's a huge pain here to set that up.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is there an efficient way to transfer lists between accounts?

[–] scottywh@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I've seen a script or something being shared to do it but haven't used it myself as of yet.

[–] CorrodedCranium@leminal.space 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I think it depends what you are looking for but I think a solid rule of thumb is to look at what communities you interact with the most and see what instances they belong to.

If piracy is specifically what you are after I'd go for dbzer0. If it's NSFW content that kind of complicates things.

I decided to give leminal.space a try and I like it. The admins are nice and quick to deal with issues and make posts about changes in the instance.

[–] yukichigai@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I was already considering switching over to kbin fully just because they're set up to interact with both Lemmy instances and Mastodon. Unfortunately the Mastodon side still feels a bit janky, but I'm hoping that'll change as time goes on.

Definitely not going to stay with an instance that pre-emptively bends over for corporate interests. That's one of the biggest reasons why I'm shifting away from Reddit in the first place.

[–] Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Definitely not going to stay with an instance that pre-emptively bends over for corporate interests.

Which one are you thinking about? No instance has corporate interests AFAIK

[–] ShittyKopper@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

No instance has corporate interests AFAIK

if you want to go "well technically..." there are some mastodon instances that are VC funded (mainly in japan, though i think there's like 1 or 2 in english), a few explicitly hosted by companies like vivaldi (the browser people) and medium, and misskey the software has built in support for running ads (though no western instance does that to the best of my knowledge)

none of them are lemmy, but they can all talk to each other

[–] AnonymousLlama@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Lots of upcoming bug fixes and improvements for kbin. It's been a slow process but super keen to get them out finally

[–] ahriboy@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

lemmy.dbzer0.com, this was founded by key people at r/piracy.

[–] TruTollTroll@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I'm just happy to find a reddit alternative. Reddit decided to ban my account because I had two linked accounts and both accounts made a comment on the same post accidentally, because I forgot my main profile has already commented.. I got perma banned for what they said was cheating the system?!?! I made a two new emails and two new accounts and instantly banned on those too... Dude I was and am pissed, because my accounts were four years old with great interactions and subs... With no recourse to appeal... Found Lemmy.world by chance, today.. and so far I am really happy with it. I saw that the app Boost will be coming out with its own app to host lemmt and I am all for it.

[–] cowfodder@unilem.org 4 points 1 year ago

lewy.world

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[–] otherbarry@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Not "new" for me but I've been happy with lemmy.zip so far. Otherwise I'd be looking at https://sh.itjust.works or just work my way down the list at https://lemmyverse.net/?order=active

[–] ElPussyKangaroo@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Wow. People are salty that lemmy.world wants to stay legal? Interesting...

Is this because of the recent defederation from piracy instances?

This instance is a "open to everyone" instance.

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