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[–] 73kk13@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'll try to keep it short. These are the things I love doing, even though I sometimes don't have the energy for any of it, except lying in my bed. Being autistic can be quite exhausting.

...tinkering with alternative operating systems for notebooks and smarties.

...watching Star Trek - grew up with it and just don't get tired of (re-)watching. My fav is Voyager.

...playing video games - my favs are Loz - Breath of the Wild and Horizon - Zero Dawn

...reading - mainly SF, fantasy, and non-fic. My fav authors are Stephen Baxter, Robin Hobb, and Henry David Thorau.

...strength training - one of my rooms was turned into a training room.

...cycling - I own an almost 20 years old Specialized Rockhopper and prefer day trips.

...travelling and hiking with my GF - mainly in remote areas such as Lapland for example.

... lying in my bed, since it is the one place with the least sensory triggers.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, my therapist said unfortunately the thing that neurotypical people don't get about being neurodivergent (as a whole) is that sometimes even resting can be exhausting. Which sounds bonkers, I know - but when you sit an think about it for two seconds you say...oh yeah - that is right.

Tinkering is always good, because you can help those around you learn to fish if they're willing. Then in turn...they can help others around them learn to fish...if they're willing. Or you can just work on open source stuff that helps everyone eat =P!

My gal loves Star Trek. She works with the tv on and I keep going out there and seeing her watching one of the new ones. I think her favorite might be the one with the female captain (Jane...Way? Idk - I probably have that wrong. Red headed woman). She said everyone hates it, but she likes it. It's probably the one I've seen the most of as a whole, and I liked it.

My gals' fav game is Breath of the Wild. But we both agree Horizon kinda creeps us out. I dig MoCap (I like it in the made by Supermassive) but there was something always off about Horizon to the two of us. Idk if it's the shadows or something as horror games tend to be dark, and Horizon as far as I remember it was super bright. On my end, it's Curious Expedition all the way. Hands down, my favorite game ever. It's on the Switch if you've got a vague interest in trying it out. Idk if you can mod it though, which really extends the lifespan of it on the PC.

Strength training is always good =)! Same with cycling, although it's not really taken on as much out here. Is Lapland where the indigenous folks are? I gave it a look and saw the reindeer. Just making an assumption, feel free to fill in blanks if you'd liek.

Beds are good, and I <3 mine. Well, no actually. I tolerate mine. I like zzzping on the floor more =P!

Cheers buddy!

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[–] Auster@lemm.ee 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Linguistics, data hoarding, and when I'm in the mood or have time, gaming and reading.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

OMFG, I love LINaskflhasklahsfkhasfkhasf - LOVE! Linguistics. How the fudge popsicles did I forget that!?!?! I have noticed an awful homogeneous movement in the US when it comes to linguistics. The slang (terminology) might differ, but I think the internet spread a lot of frustrations and shame to the point that many people have opted for SoCal accents over their native spaces and everyone has started to sound like a slurry of shit. Which is really offensive, I know. But I wish we could keep regional dialects going for as long as they can go. I also know that class (and upwards mobility) tends to kill off dialects. And I think that's because you have to speak a common "white tongue" and "middle class(+)" tongue to get anywhere in business and do relatively financially well. So I guess ultimately shame and capitalism are killing something I love. Which is probably the case across the board so...eh!

But let's talk linguistics! They're so freakin' interesting.

(I also love reading, but it's been kinda hit or miss lately.)

[–] Auster@lemm.ee 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Two places that are of interest for me recently are Spain and Norway, since both end up being very central for at least understanding somewhat languages nearby. I find it super interesting to understand languages around without studying them specifically, and it also helps drawing an etymological map in my head. =D

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yooo, root languages, that's a solid thing to trace. All anthropology in general is endlessly interesting. If you've got some good scraps online feel free to pass them this way. I love a good read =)!

[–] Auster@lemm.ee 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

My study materials, or even the methods, aren't very consistent, and mostly revolve around trying to interpret posts with languages close to the ones I already know here on the fediverse, checking the etymology of terms I'm curious about (Wiktionary's usually the first option for that), and watching some channels like youtube's "Glossonauta" (warning: Brazilian Portuguese channel) and "Living Ironically in Europe" (has some interesting videos on linguistics despite the name).

And after the learning curve I faced thanks to Norwegian (it's close enough to English that it often trapped me where it diverges), I also developed a habit of, when studying a new language, to think not just how it works, but also why. Like how anything can be shortened into a noun depending if the context allows in Portuguese, or how the politeness of a phrase in Japanese often seems proportional to its length, or how sounds often change in Norwegian to keep a good flow to speech, or how a language is influenced by the history or culture of its people.

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[–] mcmodknower@programming.dev 6 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Analyzing stuff (especially code) down to the last detail on that layer of abstraction. I can tell you one fact about how bad MCreator generated code is, and a lot more about random code bugs (often minecraft related).

The local train line i use nearly daily during the semester.

A bit less reading manga and watching anime.

I also play a bit of osu.

But generally nearly everything that is some kind of intrinsic relation (not names or model numbers but how something works etc.) is interesting for me.

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[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I'm in a space of flux right now. I once could tell you everything on the face of this planet about dogs, I really got into the AKC. Which is funny because I didn't have a dog myself. I still talk dogs, with my mother. Who really loves them herself (well a certain type) and think maybe my interests might have been influenced by hers? Not sure.

There was a time when I could tell you the price of everything in the store, down to the penny. But prices fluctuate so much nowadays. And there really isn't much point to this "super power." I think I picked it up so that I could always budget, and it really helped me fly for a long time. Now I soft-budget instead and guesstimate based off of average prices of things in relation to their worth to my being.

I am super obsessed with mustalids and am pretty sure they are god's gift to the world. I've been known to crack a fact or two at (and yeah, I mean at here sadly) people at random because they jazz me up so hard.

I feel a swing back into my one true love, illustration. I am not sure where this is going right now, but I have been dreaming of hitting up a series. That I have been unraveling as I sleep (literally in my dreams - I can have a think when I sleep) about how I want to go about it. Some cool folk on here showed me a new art program and I wanna give it a go with a series and see how it turns out. I want it to be convoluted, uncomfortable, and in the style/surrounding my interests of some of my favorite illustrators. I have been smooshing and smashings bits together and I am about to move on it. So pretty excited there.

Here's to hoping you guys share yours =)

[–] 73kk13@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I love dogs! I don't have one yet, but I most certainly will. I'm pretty sure it will help me cope with stress.

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[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I am super obsessed with mustalids and am pretty sure they are god’s gift to the world. I’ve been known to crack a fact or two at (and yeah, I mean at here sadly) people at random because they jazz me up so hard.

I know very little about mustelids except that most of them are SO CUTE. Tell me some cool things, please?

Also, are you a fan of the illustrator Michael Whelan? I just rediscovered some of his works because he started posting on Mastodon and it's lovely nostalgia.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

Hey, hey! I don't know Michael Whelan actually, but I did look him up while on the phone yesterday. Which by the by, sorry I am getting back to you late. I was on an epic quest with my mama searching for a lost 30+ year old game. Didn't find it, but she was happy by the end, so that was nice. Oh hey, now that I am having a look I wonder if this is the guy a former roommate told us (my partner and I) about when I was drawing a fantasy image one time. Cause he kinda looks like it. You know, I will tell you I am absolutely awful at backgrounds. To this day, I wish I were better. Scenery is ??? an abstract idealism to me. Even with that picture, was hard for me to push through. I wish I could get stronger with it - and it's something that I swore to myself I would do.

I personally think that mustelids are the coolest guys around, and thanks for asking about them. I have three little blubs, and they're my sweet babies. They're carnivores, not rodents - which a lot of folks get twisted. In fact, they eat rodents, which was a fun thing to see in the wild this year - as I looked outside and watched a small weasel speed its way past my door with a dead curled up mouse in its mouth. They've actually got the smallest mammalian carnivore in their order, and they contain some really cool relations including otters and badgers.

While I love them, they are an invasive species in some locations, as they're obligate carnivores that are opportunistic eaters. Colonist in attempts to keep down certain populations (such as rats in Hawaii and rabbits in New Zealand) ended up disrupting the ecosystem and as these places have a lot of ground-birds the weasels they introduced just decimated the population. But in all honesty, they will eat anything they can take down. Which might not be much as most are solitary, but they have also been known to be quite vicious when paired (which can be known as a boogle or a buisness).

I love the fact that most weasels tend to mate for life, forming bonded-pairs. Which is unfortunately a double-edged sword for domesticated babes, because one will kill themselves with depression if their other passes. Which I have seen first hand, and no amount of love tend to bring them back. Another interesting fact is that they tend to be diurnal - and typically hunt at dawn and dusk. Although some can be nocturnal. Their coats change with the seasons, which can include changing colors or growing thicker or thinner. I believe the lot tend to shed bi-annually. But I could be wrong on that one. As I can't imagine a honey badger doing so. But I haven't looked into it exclusively.

Outside of that we've been domesticating them for ~2,000 years. WWI veterans kept them in their bags as what I'd like to think of as emotional support animals. If you bag train a babe, you can take them around and they just chill with you. But they are for sure an exotic pet. They're very high maintenance and I would explicitly recommend them for individuals who can support the lifestyle they need and are absolutely obsessed (like, yo!) Otherwise I would recommend something simpler like a dog or a cat.

We've got our litter trained, and they are free roaming. But we have to keep the house a pretty brisk temperature because they can't go over a certain temp or they can heat stroke out. I am not sure how well a majority of them are going to fair with global warming. One of DaVinci's six (I mean not actually six, but he doesn't have an excessive painting catalogue and tended to linger on paintings for extended periods of time) was Lady with an Ermine which looks like one of my bebs! But it always geeks me out, by the by I believe the ermine was added later to the painting, but I don't really remember the ins and outs of it. Speaking of which, these guys are long - have slinky bodies which are great for tunneling. And they are both predator and prey. You should have a look at the weasel war dance because it's pretty funny =)! They also make hilarious noises, that a fellow fur-mom describes as "chicken noises."

Idk if that was enough, but it's all that came from la cabeza real stream of conciousness style =P!

Eitehr way, cheers, and I hope you go and watch some really cute fur-boy videos and cool conservationist docs. p.s. - I joke that once we were all weasels because look at the first mammal.

[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Pro wrestling, specifically AEW, NXT and Mystery Wrestling. I'm a sucker for good comedy wrestling, and Chuck Taylor is my favorite male wrestler (even though he had to mostly retire this year). https://youtu.be/zlAHrHL_FCc?si=kaj76TB8WZP78nSj links to one of Chuck's best spots, the BOLA grenade!

Rabbits. Rabbits are incredible. They're not rodents even though their teeth continue growing throughout their lives, and they have no paw pads. They're basically like having tiny cuddly fuzzy deer or horses in your house without the poop issues.

Pokemon first gen, particularly Jigglypuff and her evolution family including Scream Tail. I found out today that Rachael Lillis, the original anime voice of Jigglypuff (and Misty, and Jessie) passed away this weekend and I'm a little heartbroken.

I'm also crazy about rogue-likes and rogue-lites, and I can't wait for Hades 2 to officially release 😁

[–] mcmodknower@programming.dev 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Do you know shattered pixel dungeon? Its an open source rougelike that you can play on your smartphone or pc.

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[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Idk if you're into wrestling games but they've got some pretty fucking naners ones on Steam. But people like you always keep me alive. Cause legitimately I never had a personal direct interest in wrestling, but growing up my folks who did always kept me in the know. And you guys have so much passion it gives me life. I've seen a couple of gigs and it's always super entertaining. I've pretty much got one guy left in the life and his joy is contagious. Only catch is I don't understand a damn thing about the game anymore. Simple example is I have absolutely no clue who Chuck Taylor is (I was like - shoes?) BUT! You're so jazzed and I dig that.

Rabbits are incredible! I can't have them, because my lovelies sustain off of them =_o!! Their paws are wonderful though, I agree. As are the paws of chinchillas. Not the same, but the only other creature I can think of that is int he same boat. Not sure if you're into camp and absolute goofy horror but they made a horror movie with cutie bunnies called Night of the Lepus.

Hmm, RIP!

Gunna put my favo rl here. Plop.

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[–] finkrat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago
[–] the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I'm really into radio tech (licensed amateur operator), tabletop RPGs, video games, and fictional religions.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yo, what do you play?

Radio tech is cool, ever knew one person who dug it. My childhood bestie's dad. He finessed the hey outta his van and just chilled out in his 70s style decked out phat ass van and would listen to his RV.

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[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What RPGs? I'm currently reading through Girl By Moonlight, which is a derivative of the Blades in the Dark system, and it's fantastic. Also Brindlewood Bay is charming AF

[–] the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)
  • On Sundays, I play Pathfinder Second Edition, more specifically the Fate walkers campaign.
  • On Tuesdays, I play Star Wars Saga Edition, a homebrew dark side campaign.
  • On Saturdays, I ordinarily have a Warhammer Fantasy Roleplay campaign going on, but my GM is laying the groundwork for the rest of our adventure so we're on hiatus.

They're all tons of fun. I also have a solo game which I mentioned in another reply.

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[–] Halasham@dormi.zone 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)
  • Video Games Mostly those that allow me to tinker or engineer or just optimize from a lot of options available to the player. Minecraft, especially with the Create Mod, is a great example. I can engineer to my heart's content with it. Space Engineers is one that if feels like I should love it but I have a hard time getting into it.
  • Leftist Political Ideologies Mostly Marxism and it's sub-groups but also Anarcho-Communism as well. This includes the history of attempts at those systems and modern examples. Sometimes this gets frustrating when I encounter an unironic use of a wholly, or almost wholly, false point being brought out again. Unfortunately some of the big names have writing styles so dry they could sap the moisture from the Atlantic.
  • World History in general Especially early to mid modern history and ancient history. Military history from any point in time is also pretty enjoyable to me. Sometimes it's frustrating like learning that a major problem of today was almost wholly caused by one person in the past having a particular preference for X over Y (ex Ford preferring internal combustion for his cars over battery power).
  • Urban Design I like learning about what is and isn't effective in terms of how to build places that work for people. What makes places safer or more dangerous, how to reduce stress through little design tricks, and how places can be a net positive for the wider area they're in. Also trains on both large and small scale.
  • Computer Programming/IT Out of all my interests this is the one I'm perusing as something I could have a job doing. Working with computers strikes a nice balance between rules being clear and exact and being open-ended enough to allow for creative solutions. Also learned I have a strong preference for C++ over Javascript. That may be because I learned C++ first and Javascript is a lot more typing intensive to do simple things.
[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Hey, are you the human that said that you felt uncomfortable with the weird movement? Cause someone here said that and said they were Anarcho-Communist and here ^^ You're saying that too. I, without reading anything (like a well informed human) have been kicking around what this concept could even be. I didn't want to read about it yet, because it's really easy to just tip-tap-type on the internet and *click* bing -> get an answer. But I wanted to kick around what this is. And I am still kind of at a loss. Best I can come to is Anarchism <---- Void order/government | Organized for the people/Equality ----> Communism. So you're like a...order-less egalitarian? Idk, you can give me the low-low or I can start giving it a lookie loo, but it's what I came to.

On history, I have been trying to tease this out of my brain as well. But more so this concept that humans are not wholly different than we ever have been. Even if technology has changed us. And I was thinking that perhaps we could use the basin of knowledge of historians to point towards past-follies which might help our current ones. I know someone on here had a fantastic explanation of fascism and how it often uses arguments that contradict themselves. I would love more easily digestible factoids that could be slowly spread en-masse to others to wake the masses from their lulls. I think it'd be pretty great. Also thanks to someone on here I spent about three hours chunking through the 30 Year War earlier. I wish history was one of my fixations, but it is fun to dabble with.

Urban design is interesting, because I think the way American cities are built are pretty bunk and I would love to see a revitalization movement not full of all those weird mod-esq blocky greige apartments. I wish we upped the foot traffic and downed the car traffic. Trains are great too, not sure why America didn't want to install rails all over the joint. I feel crippled if I don't have a Metro I can hop on =

If you have a quaint personality and can communicate well you can do well as a dev. I wish you could be a cave troll, living in isolation, rolling out code waterfall style. I want to hunt whoever created Scrum Most Dangerous Game style. But that's just me. If you dig C++, study C++. It doesn't really matter what language you learn, just that you understand the concepts behind the act. And then you can translate that to other languages if you need to - and pick up the nuances as you go. And of course, first and foremost just being able to understand what to look up and what to reach out over.

Eh.

But I'm not genius or nothing. Either way feel free to talk back =)

[–] Halasham@dormi.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Actually I'm a Marxist. However don't see much reason in perpetuating the red/black divide. Both groups have the same end-goal in mind, we just want to do the two major steps in reverse order compared to each-other. The end goal is a stateless society without need of currency and without the division of people into different classes. To drastically oversimplify centuries of work to get there we need to do two things:

  • Abolish Capitalism
  • Abolish Nationalism

Side note: As you may be able to infer from those two steps Anarcho-Capitalism and National Socialism aren't really from either system, rather they've pretty much just stolen the terms for their use rather that denote relatedness to other Anarcho-s or Socialisms.

Communists want to do them in the order I presented, generally by seizing control of the State and using it to destroy capitalism then adopting reforms to slowly make the State pointless. Anarchists want to destroy the State first then get rid of Capitalism.

One big misconception about Anarchism is that it isn't for chaos and disorder, it's for the end of unjustified hierarchy. An actual Anarchist experiment would still have social order, rather than be the chaotic social breakdown that is called Anarchism as a means of disinformation. A lot of Anarchist works explain how systems of voluntary cooperation can work and would be helpful to society.

Unfortunately America's bad urban design is the product of legal corruption, lobbying, on the part of the automotive industry. Good urban design invalidates any need for a car and so the companies that make and sell cars pour billions into ensuring that ours will continue to be horrible. We used to have trains that went everywhere and they were great but again that was all unraveled for the sake of the dead-last worst way to move people in bulk: cars.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don't think it's just in-part due to legal corruption. I mean of course a SLEW of it is racism. Which is fucking bonkers, because white people left the cities to get away from poc only to come back and kick them all out (which is where we're at right now). I don't entirely understand this world, let alone this country but I bang my head when I have a solid think about it.

Capitalism is for sure flawed. I am not sure what the equivalent would be that could be replaced large scale that would sit harmoniously with others and in that sense I am also at a loss.

I think the concept behind the chaos of anarchy is that the lack of a social contract is in fact what instills the chaos. Because people do not operate well in a space without them. Which I think...was documented with violence. As in, people used to lean heavily on retaliation murder prior to democracy being instilled. But this is just something I am parroting which is a faint memory from my studies. Personally? I don't know. I do think though, that people without regulation are chaotic in the sense that no matter how much I want to be a "good boss" I always end up being a "fun boss" instead and people only do as much as they think they can get away with doing instead of doing what seems to be the right amount of work for the greater good. This could be a personal bias thing - or just a personality thing in general. I don't know much else about it though, and these are just some loose thoughts on the matter. Feel free to toss more this way though.

[–] Halasham@dormi.zone 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Capitalism is for sure flawed. I, and most if not all leftists, would argue that it is inherently flawed. Not in small ways either but in the sort of large ways that make it's continued use unacceptable. Such as essentially every Human need being denied to some people within the system.

Capitalism obsessively distributes by market forces that are fundamentally incapable of caring about universality. So long as any human need is distributed by market forces, especially paired with profit as the driving incentive, it doesn't matter how large the surplus of it is people will be deprived of it.

I think the concept behind the chaos of anarchy is that the lack of a social contract Well, there's also the matter that Anarchism and Communism were both relatively recently the targets of the largest and most prolific propaganda machine ever made. US media is incredibly sycophantic toward the government, to the point Russian state media bucks the line more frequently, and has been extremely effective at coloring public opinion on topics the average person knows effectively nothing about, even beyond the USA.

that people without regulation are chaotic in the sense that no matter how much I want to be a "good boss" I always end up being a "fun boss" instead and people only do as much as they think they can get away with doing instead of doing what seems to be the right amount of work for the greater good.

You're a manager? Part of the issue with motivating workers to work without systemic change is that regardless of your managerial style we live in a system where the primary motivating force is fundamentally a death threat: work or die, likely from exposure or starvation.

Further no matter how good a manager you are they are not receiving the full value of their labor. No company in any capitalist nation employs people at the full value they produce as that would mean net profit for the company from that employee is $0. As the fundamental motivating force for all companies is increasing profit this course of action is effectively impossible as all decision-making at the topmost level is centered around doing the opposite of giving the full value they receive.

Given that workers, from the company's perspective, are there to do as much as possible for as little as possible in return is it any wonder that so many of them take the inverse perspective? That they are there to do as little as possible for as much as possible in return.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago

I hear you on the top one. This is something I ponder over time to time. On account of being taught that universalism means equality, but it does not mean that everyone's existence will be grand. And by that I mean - in order to implement such a system I think most people living in developed nations would have to greatly reduce their expected quality of life in order to implement a total social universalism. And of course as you go down the ladder, that would be less than say someone sitting in the middle or the top. But I think it's unrealistic to think that it would just be the cash cows that would kneel in this situation. Likewise, that they would. As many capitalist lean heavy into some shady idealisms like libertarianism and eugenics. A guy once told me all men have the same twenty-four hours in a day and I told him that's bullshit. But almost everything around me that I can think of was created pretty much through slave labor (even if I believe in minimalism). And I believe things would have to significantly change in order to create a mindset in which humans were okay with being "less comfortable." Which is why I always said it's funny people will treat a dog better than they will a human. I am not saying that I am for capitalism, and I hope you don't take it as such. What I mean is, I think there needs to be approachable steps and uniting systems laid down in order to make humans see all humans as equals and worth such graces. But as it stands, I am not sure it's going to happen as a whole. And I'm just here for the ride, as when I leave so does my bloodline.

I believe in egalitarianism. Maybe on account of being a descendant of several collectivist societies. But I am also a born and bred American, and can't parade as anything else. I believe hive-minded thinking is weak in many forms, because while change can come quickly - it's easy to throw away decency in the name of the greater good. I have met and even once loved a handful of west-coast flavored anarchists. I think they work very well together in small commune-y type settings. But I am still uncertain of how they would work with a larger buy-in. Because many of them are actually quite emotional and thoughtful. And most people I've met in my travels try their best to stay emotionally numb. Because otherwise they check-in and realize how miserable they truly are. Which I often circle back to thinking about how we might have been as a whole. At least since societies are formed. Or even perhaps the smartest individual I have ever had the privileged to call a friend supposing that perhaps being alive is just a depressing experience to all on some level. On the media, I believe most countries are that way, at least to their own countries. As media is all one giant mind-control machine. And America did really good to setup the game with Hollywood, but I think because of the internet things are more transparent in some senses. And more bogged down (with chatter and bullshit) in another. It's hard to know what to trust, or to believe in. So it leaves a lot of apathy in its wake.

I never worked considering the value. But I am a poor advocate in that sense. I think it might be a combination of factors here. But honestly, it's probably some combination of my mental faculties ultimately. Because I can really only think in a singular relatively extreme way. Regardless of how open I try to be. And I can really only focus on one singular thing at a time, regardless of how hard I try to look at all the spinning plates. My gal always says I'm a great manager because I am charismatic and am a good schemer/churner of things. But I think I really lack in the spaces that both ADHD and Autism affect in which neurotypical people soar. And so ultimately I feel like a weak navigator of the "system" as a whole. Especially on account of being a firm believer of people doing "What they want, not what they are told to." Which is perhaps the anti-venom of a capitalist boss right there. In my heart of hearts I want to believe that people will do what they believe they should, and that want will spring from that well. Because it's how I do. If it's something I feel like doing, I will do it - in any world. Even here. But ultimately I think most people do not work in that way. Because I think most people actually are just barely scraping by because the majority are burnt-out. And honestly, a large chunk of that is from capitalism itself. So yet again - don't love it. But don't go into a job being pissed that I am not getting paid my value. Cause if I did, I would never work again as a queer brown female-presenting human being =P!

I will also say that when I work with kind heart folks, which are my bread and butter - they work with me because we're all just good to one another. And that's my favorite kind of work environment. I'm proud that I worked my way up, but I am not my job - I'm me =)!

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[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Fermenting everything. I have made beer shout out !homebrewing@sopuli.xyz and sourdough bread for years. I just started a ginger bug to make me own sodas and have made jalapeno pickles for the first time. Next on my list is hot sauce.

[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Tell me more about the pickles, please? I love fresh jalapenos but haven't found a pickled one I really like, so maybe making my own would help.

[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 2 points 1 month ago

They're great. Kept their crunch more than store bought ones. No loss in heat. Nice tangy flavor. Any vegetable fermentation guide will work. I did a 3% salt solution and 3 weeks ferment.

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[–] iamdisillusioned@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I'm into nail art, Seinfeld and watching my cats destroy my house... and I usually enjoy them all at once.

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[–] Murdoc@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Audhd here, so way too many interests to list (short list here: https://social.vivaldi.net/@Murdoc). But my biggest long-standing one is called Technocracy. Not how the word gets used most of the time today, but rather the proposed sustainable and post-scarcity economic system devised in the 1920s. Not only is it just interesting from being a novel and well-designed system, but it deals with so many important issues like poverty, environmentalism, sexism, racism, crime, and all in an objective, hard scientific way (i.e. not "political science"). All that science and progressivism (from 100 years ago too!) just delights my autistic brain no end. Here's my attempt to make the topic more accessible to the modern audience: https://technate.org/tiki-index.php

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

AU-D-FREAKIN'-H-D!!!!! Yo!

Top link doesn't work here =<

I was thinking about this the other day. I kinda wanted to do an askie-poo here but I just said feh! But if we could speak on alternate time lines - how could we have changed the world in order to set it up for the success of the most plausible amount of individuals versus the sort of caste-goop we've got going on right now.

GL on building your TIKI by the by, maybe you should ask the question and invite others to participate in building it?

[–] Murdoc@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

🙂 👋

Weird, the link works for me. :/

Oh, I've certainly thought of alternate time-lines. Aspiring writer here. Trying to turn one of them into a novel (well, novel series lol), but you know, ADHD. So I could certainly talk at length about that.

Thanks. I've tried getting help. What few have accepted never seemed to have the time, or else they had too much trouble with the wiki paradigm? Idk. It's been a struggle. Which is too bad since I tend to work better (i.e. more often) when others are involved.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 points 1 month ago (4 children)
  • Games (video, board, sports; if it's a game, I'm into it)
  • Comedy
  • Writing

And that's pretty much it.

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