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Women of Lemmy, do you mind being called cute? (lemm.ee)

submitted 3 months ago by ramble81@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Or do you prefer other adjectives? Do you consider it to be insulting or do you take it for a compliment if it was meant as one? (Assume an amenable relationship between the two people, not a random stranger or creeper)

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[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

It super depends on who's saying it!

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago

Of course not. It's not like I'm Judy Hopps.

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 0 points 3 months ago

Male here. There are many contexts. If I was still in high school, and a coach says "Don't be cute with me", I would take it as a compliment. It would mean I was doing a good job pissing him off.

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