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Despite not subscribing to political communities and having a large number of content filters based on keywords, my feed here is still for a large part all negative articles and ragebait. Elon Musk this and Israel that. Microsoft ruining windows, AI ruining internet, right wingers and capitalism ruining the world, police being racist and shooting innocent people, companies demanding workers into offices, privacy being under constant attack from all sides.. And all this despite the effort I go thru to block that from my view. I can only imagine what the unfiltered feed is like.

I get that this is all important stuff but holy shit it's depressing when that's all I read here every day. Sure, some of it is legitimately news worthy but lets be real here; much of it isn't. It's just to get you riled up and engaging with the post. It's the exact same thing all major social media recommendation algorithms are doing; feeding you content that causes outrage to keep you on the platform for as long as possible. Do we really need to know about every stupid thing Elon says or every police shooting where the victim is black?

It's no wonder so many people, especially younger ones feel absolutely miserable from day to day. It can't be healthy to live like this. I feel like this kind of media diet is pretty much equivalent to eating fast food every single day.

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[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Except

Elon Musk this

Yep.

and Israel that.

Definitely that.

Microsoft ruining windows,

alwayshasbeen.jpg

AI ruining internet,

Nah. Stupid just has a new source.

right wingers and capitalism ruining the world,

Just for the 99%

police being racist and shooting innocent people,

A painfully bad generalization based on sensationalized news and really badly-trained american muni cops.

companies demanding workers into offices,

See: 'capitalism ruining the world', above.

privacy being under constant attack from all sides…

We need to aggressively shun the worst companies and keep doing it until they evolve.

And all this despite the effort I go thru to block that from my view

I see people writing 'thru' like it's a whatsapp chat with their school-chums. It's okay to dislike what you see, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times. Remind people - like people who think 'thru' is appropriate - that they're smarter, they know better, and they can be better, but that it's also okay to be working toward that goal without having achieved it yet.

This will all be fixed, but it feels like a lot, right now. We CAN work on more than one thing at once, too: people can learn the difference between 'the person that I saw' and 'the person whom I saw' (one of them is an insulting objectification) while they also improve how they sort recyclables. Like how your mom would tell you not to shuffle your feet while she reminded you not to slouch while you walk, there will be many cases where we can be improving one thing and it won't impact improvement in another avenue.

Just do your best. That's all anyone can ask, now as it always has been.

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[–] creditCrazy@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Yeah I feel that way about the Internet as a whole kinda one of the reasons why I've been trying to make my accounts interact with j pop and Japanese studying recently so there's what I've been trying and here specifically im finding a lot of communists and trans people trying to get people to be on their side and like bro I just want to get suggestions on how to make my car faster I suppose at least the atheists on here are pretty jokey and the fuck cars community is pretty chill actually one of the reasons why dispute being a car guy I strongly support infrastructure that doesn't focus on cars over all the star trec meme community here has been pretty good non political community

[–] azurekevin@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

It's worse than eating fast food everyday lol

[–] AgentGrimstone@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Absolutely. One thing I miss about Reddit is having an active personalized feed of positive/neutral content.

[–] Shyfer@ttrpg.network 1 points 5 months ago

I have multiple accounts and feeds. I have one account with basically everything on my home feed and I either browse that account or Everything when I want to be informed doe just mindlessly doom scroll.

On the other hand, this account's subscribed home feed I put absolutely no news or political stuff on at all, so I just scroll subscribed for this or another account I have when I want to just tune out for a bit lol.

[–] Cosmicomical@lemmy.world 0 points 5 months ago

I think it reflects the point where we are as a society. Everything is crappy and we all come here to vent.

[–] AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world 0 points 5 months ago (3 children)

It might feel pretty dire, but all of this information is critical to understanding and empathizing with the people you might meet in your own society. You can opt out of forums (and should if it's causing you distress). I wouldn't suffer a buffer from the negative information if it meant a lack of information in general.

[–] Drewelite@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Most news and social spaces on the Internet pull people's focus to issues they have very little control over. This has been shown to cause a degradation in mental health. Since these places have become a mainstay in society, we've seen a plummet in mental health. Things can't get better if everyone is suffering from depression and anxiety.

Being informed enough to support a few (2-3) issues with real intention, can be helpful. But letting corporations and politicians leverage the idea that being informed about everything is good, just leads to them pointing to everything that can be spun as a problem. Then nobody does anything meaningful to affect change. They just feel defeated.

[–] AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

I mean... maybe we're depressed because of the crushing weight of the real world impacts of what's being reported on. I absolutely believe that consuming dour media can affect your mood. Plenty of evidence. I've also had two friends die of poverty due to their incapability to afford medical expenses.

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[–] Bruhh@lemmy.world 0 points 5 months ago
[–] gila@lemm.ee 0 points 5 months ago

How do I defederate from posts complaining about lemmy.ml admins being tankies? Hasn't the instance required manual signup approval for the whole last year? Complaints about it being a flagship instance and the resulting bad look for the platform are total non-sequitur. The problem is absolutely, totally, without caveat, solved by lemmy's blocking functionality. If you don't like that they created popular communities, tough titties. At the core of the issue is that these complaints are pushing a decentralized platform to conform to their worldview. That just isn't how it works.

/rant

[–] IsThisAnAI@lemmy.world -2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Yes. This place is a dumpster fire. I actually started using Reddit again. I was super interested in moving from Reddit but the power mod issues combined with the extremist political folks here have absolutely scared away any average user.

That then creates a content problem. So now you just have bots posting news all day. And that news gets reposted to not only subs, but now subs within instances too, so you get 18 mentions of the save exact doomer news.

Edit: Jesus Christ, the answers in this thread....

The world isn't burning unless you're on a border with Russia.

[–] Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee 1 points 5 months ago

I've had similar feelings about going back to reddit. The additional issue with the negativity and extremist political views is that I don't feel like recommending this place to any of the people I know. I can't imagine any normal person enjoying being here.

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[–] TokenBoomer@lemmy.world -2 points 5 months ago

Have you tried unplugging capitalism, and then not plugging it back in?

[–] ShadowCat@lemmy.dbzer0.com -5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

this happened after the redditors joined... well I suggest the OG lemmy.ml communites, much better

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