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Therapy is kind of like college. You go into it, to try and know what you'd like to do. Only in therapy's case, you're going into therapy to narrow down exactly what you think is wrong with you and finding that confirmation on whether or not you truly have something.
Talking to online friends and close ones are limited because they cannot give you medical advice. They're there to weather your mental storms until you do manage to get to a therapist that can at least gauge the forecast.
And if I had to give one tip about therapy, try to make a series of bullet points and prioritize what you want to figure out the most from top to bottom. Things like "Why is it do I randomly snap or cry around people?" are things you probably should have on the top to talk about, as opposed to "why do I randomly make mayo sandwiches every other hour?" being the very bottom.