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Kill them with kindness. Be direct and to the point, but make them hate you more because you're too nice. That way, if they want to talk shit about you, all they can say is that you're too nice.
As someone else mentioned, if you screwed up, make amends, then the kindness thing.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtxCPQP00uU