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I'm a parent, and we made the conscious decision to become parents. That said, I can fully understand people who don't want to have that responsibility. It can be exhausting and thankless, changing almost everything with your life, hobbies and habits.
On the other side of the coin, the depth of love you feel as a parent is impossible to describe. With that comes a set of incredible feelings, watching your children experience, learn and grow.
Basically, parenthood is almost completely thankless, but I wouldn't give it up for the world.
And then the grandkids show up....it's like amping up the feelings for my kids x10
All the fun, none of the long term responsibilities!
Not everyone who has kids ends up feeling this way though :(