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which one do you prefer? having kids or no kids? and why?? (lemmy.world)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by hungrythirstyhorny@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] FeelThePower@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I've known since I was young that I don't want any. This was only reinforced after I adopted a kitten last year, regretted it to the point of depression after about 2 months, and adopted him off to someone else who I trust. I realised I absolutely don't ever want that kind of responsibility again so a human life would be infinitely worse of an idea. this is on top of terrible genetic health issues that I wouldn't want to force onto another existence.