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[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

it does get left up by certain mods here 😭 part of the reason for posting this

in my individual non authoritative opinion OKBR gets grandfathered the pass ~~but only because it’s used in a purely non offensive context~~ nope it’s offensive, you are right. i think it gets grandfathered in because it has important memetic/cultural meaning. but it’s still obviously highly offensive and so should be treated with delicacy and respect.

hereabouts though i’ll see like, a thread argument about cross stitching and boom, r-slur used as a derogatory. like come on kids this isn’t kindergarten lmao.

[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

in my individual non authoritative opinion OKBR gets grandfathered the pass but only because it’s used in a purely non offensive context

Hard disagree here. It's the very definition of it being used offensively.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You have a right to that, I probably need to do some self examination there.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago

That sub opened in 2017