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[โ€“] calabast@lemm.ee 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

To get out of those spirals, I just remind myself that I've probably forgotten hundreds of things other people probably regret saying/doing, and odds are most people probably forgot mine. Even if I'm sure someone didn't forget it, I doubt they ever think about it anymore.

[โ€“] treadful@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 months ago

That might work until you remember that time someone made a fool out of themselves in front of you.