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What's the hardest lesson you've learned? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 5 months ago by Samvega@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Interpret 'hardest' however suits you. Look forward to your answers!

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[–] themachine@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Trust no one. Not fully at least.

[–] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 7 points 5 months ago

Learned that the hard way. Within less than a week went from happily living in the house that I had grown up in, that I was renting from my father and that I was planning to eventually buy or inherit to having to look for an apartment because he sold it. The worst thing? That he never gave me a reason or even acknowledged how much he had hurt me. Quite the opposite, he later asked me to help the new owners set up their tv as if it was nothing.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 5 months ago

Got it. I am no one, and I don't trust myself.

[–] 1boiledpotato@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 months ago

That's sad but true