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People without a family, how are you faring in life? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 6 months ago by oldfemboy@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Without a family as in fully on your own since legal age, be it kicked out / had to leave at 18 or from a foster background, or from an orphanage.

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[–] themadcodger@kbin.social 19 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Well, this thread has strengthened my desire to adopt a teen from foster care. I technically have/had a family but they were more like roommates than parents. Left at 18 and never looked back. Had my share of lonely holidays that I would dread when they came around. I'm not trying to say I've had the same story as those here, but I get some parts of it really well. I'm finally at a place where maybe I can prevent that from happening to someone else.

[–] oldfemboy@lemmy.ml 9 points 6 months ago

Thank you so much. 🥺 I'm sure you'll be an amazing parent. 🥰