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submitted 3 weeks ago by lemmylem@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I just got ghosted by the girl I was talking to, I want to find another girl to talk to. This girl and I met at the gym, but I don't want to be the guy that goes to the gym just to meet girls. I mean sure there's the bar and Tinder, but I want a real relationship. I mean, I guess it'll come to me.

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[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 weeks ago

The gym isn't a bad place to meet girls, but I wouldn't cold approach them for the most part or assume any who do talk to you want a relationship.

My best advice is that if you really like the gym and fitness, take a class at the gym that is likely to have more women in it, like yoga or a dance class. Do try to pick something you actually are kind of interested learning more about, though. It'll give you something else to focus on and take the pressure off trying to meet people. It'll also make you look better as a potential partner if they can personally watch you working hard at learning something.

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