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What did you get told as a child that you realised was a lie as you got older? (lemmy.world)

submitted 6 months ago by CalciumDeficiency@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] DessertStorms@kbin.social 47 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Some that others have already said (hard work = success, trust cops), and off the top of my head:

That my ultimate goal in life is to find a husband, and carry and then raise children (people don't stop saying it once you grow up, you just hopefully learn that they're full of shit)
That "blood is thicker than water" and that your family will always be there for you/want what's best for you

[–] theshatterstone54@feddit.uk 11 points 6 months ago (2 children)

IIRC, the original "blood is thicker than water" quote is actually "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb" which means those that stand by you and fight and struggle with you, and are there for you, are more valuable than those biologically related to you.

[–] FractalsInfinite@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 months ago

Writing in the 1990s and 2000s, author Albert Jack and Messianic Rabbi Richard Pustelniak, claim that the original meaning of the expression was that the ties between people who have made a blood covenant (or have shed blood together in battle) were stronger than ties formed by "the water of the womb", thus "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb". Neither of the authors cite any sources to support their claim.

Nice, do you have a source for that so I can fix the wikipedia article? Either way it doesn't particularly matter.

[–] darklamer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 6 months ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_is_thicker_than_water