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Married folks of Fediverse, if you could turn back time to few weeks or months before your marriage, what you would do differently (if you would like to)?? (lemm.ee)

submitted 6 months ago by WeAreAllOne@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 68 points 6 months ago (5 children)

Take our honeymoon straight away. We decided to wait and take our time to plan a big trip after we got married, which was in November 2019....

[–] isgleas@lemmy.ml 28 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Then what happened? What a cliffhanger! /s

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 35 points 6 months ago

Nothing, nothing happened in 2020.

[–] SturgiesYrFase@lemmy.ml 5 points 6 months ago

Wife and I got married in between lockdowns in the UK. We were able to have 4 people there, our witnesses and our photographer and my witness' wife. Would have liked to have had a few more people there, and a proper bachelor party, and a honeymoon of any kind....

[–] Obi@sopuli.xyz 5 points 6 months ago

Yeah same, we took a mini trip on the way home from the wedding, with plans to do a huge trip "soon". With our lifestyles we already "need" to travel multiple times a year just for family etc, so taking the time and expense for such a trip just never really works out.

[–] frazorth@feddit.uk 4 points 6 months ago

Same, we got married while she was pregnant and we were emigrating.

That was 2010.

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 3 points 6 months ago

Well that's a way to keep the honeymoon period going!