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I can wear a dress to work and nobody criticizes me. I’d be really sad if I had to wear pants all the time, they’re just not as comfortable. Let’s normalize pretty dresses for dudes!

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[–] GONADS125@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I tried to use this argument with a boss during the summer, when she told me shorts weren't "professional"... She didn't bite when I pointed out the variety of "professional" female vs male attire, and that no summer male alternative to pants exists. I pointed out the skirt she was wearing during that scorching day as an example.

But I worked primarily in the field and none of my Clients nor their care facilities cared, so joke's on her and I wore what I wanted anyway. Dressed in pants on days I went into the office or brought Clients to one of my (former) organization's facilities.

But I am totally okay with this trade-off given that men's clothes actually have pockets! I'll sweat my balls off in exchange for functional pockets any day..

[–] constantokra@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Try carrying a bag. You'll have the freedom to bring along whatever you want. I never use pockets.

[–] GONADS125@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Bags are too inconvenient and cumbersome for me. I want my phone in my front right pocket, wallet in back right, and tissues in my front left. Don't need or want anything else on me.