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[–] Crunkle_Foreskin@kbin.social 14 points 1 year ago (30 children)

Treating people differently because of their beliefs? I'm not even that conservative, but you sound like the real bigots.

[–] Lazylazycat@lemmy.world 109 points 1 year ago

If someone's beliefs are a danger to my life or others' then yep, I won't be pursuing a relationship with them, romantic or otherwise.

[–] Flag@kbin.social 97 points 1 year ago (11 children)

Pffft, just means that your beliefs have consequences.

Something something tolerance paradox.

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[–] TheEntity@kbin.social 84 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Excuse me for... *checks notes* ...choosing who to pursue relationships with based on our common values or the lack of them.

[–] Crunkle_Foreskin@kbin.social 15 points 1 year ago

Phrasing it that way is really solid and makes a lot of sense.

[–] PugJesus@kbin.social 76 points 1 year ago (24 children)

I also treat racists differently because of their beliefs, as well as sexists. I guess I'm the real bigot here.

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[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.ml 76 points 1 year ago

My favorite thing is when a conservative finds themselves outside of one their safe-space, echo chambers and are shocked to discover that not only do regular people not agree with them, but they find their views so abhorrent that they actively view all conservatives as complete pieces of shit. And they are not wrong to do so.

[–] HornyOnMain@lemmy.ml 74 points 1 year ago

i'm the real bigot because i dont want to shag someone who happily advocates for making it as hard as possible for me to get gender affirming healthcare and openly supports the neoliberal privatisation that's devastated my country?

yes i very openly discriminate against conservatives, i have no plans for stopping or apologising

[–] rusticus1773@lemmy.ml 59 points 1 year ago

Would a black person be justified in not wanting to date a white supremacist? Or would you call the black person “the real bigot”?

[–] Platomus@lemm.ee 58 points 1 year ago

You should 100% treat people different depending on their beliefs.

[–] Matomo@lemmy.ml 58 points 1 year ago

Not wanting to date someone because of their beliefs sounds like a perfectly valid reason. Especially if those beliefs can impact someone's rights

[–] RobertPetersen@lemmy.world 54 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If the beliefs in question are like, banning books, oppressing gender identities, removing reproductive rights, oppressing the needy, undermining elections with baseless conspiraciesand selling out to the highest bidders, then yeah, they and their beliefs can suck a fuck.

[–] Fibby@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 year ago

Right? Whenever someone is confused about my dislike of conservatives, they act like I disagree with their tax policies.

Obviously there are bigger things at issue here.

[–] Nezgul@reddthat.com 42 points 1 year ago

Conservatives: "We don't believe that you should have full control over your body and will happily pass laws to prevent you from exercising that control, including laws that will send you to prison for a life-saving medical procedure."

Women: "oh fuck. Wow. Uh. Okay, I will not be associating with you."

You: "WOAHHHHH WOAHHHHHHHH WOW CALM DOWN THERE LITTLE MISS BIGOT HOW ABOUT SOME RESPECT FOR PEOPLE HUH?"

[–] potatobro7@lemmy.fmhy.ml 39 points 1 year ago

Choosing not to date someone isn't really treating someone differently, 7 billion people on this planet you're not gonna date most of them

[–] Onionizer@geddit.social 35 points 1 year ago

Not wanting to date somebody is not the same as "treating people differently". You're arguing in bad faith

[–] Kalkaline@lemmy.one 34 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'll think of you when I punch a Nazi.

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[–] fidodo@lemm.ee 34 points 1 year ago

When it comes to dating? Yes. Absolutely. Why would you think that beliefs are a non factor for dating?

[–] Heldenhirn@feddit.de 33 points 1 year ago

"Im not that conservative" said every conservative ever when arguing on a left leaning platform

[–] S_204@lemm.ee 32 points 1 year ago

I kinda get a kick out of the ignorance some conservatives bring to the table. It's almost cute, if not so stupid.

You should read up on the paradox of tolerance, and why Conservative attempts to play the victim card only expose their hypocrisy.

[–] Lunar 31 points 1 year ago

Believe it or not, it's perfectly normal to only want a relationship with someone who shares your core values. You conservatives (don't lie) might understand that if you actually tried to have an actual relationship with someone instead of trying to establish ownership over them.

[–] Ixoid@kbin.social 30 points 1 year ago

I hope this is a bit.

[–] Entropywins@kbin.social 26 points 1 year ago

I mean I form all judgements and treat people different based off their beliefs and actions as the former lead to the latter...

[–] zos_kia@lemmy.fmhy.ml 23 points 1 year ago

No cause we don't advocate for them to be punished in any way. We just don't want to fuck them.

[–] Nerdybynature@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

That persecution fetish is out and about, huh?

[–] argv_minus_one@beehaw.org 15 points 1 year ago

When their beliefs include hating me, yeah, I'm going to treat them differently.

[–] ruination@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 1 year ago

I don't mind their different beliefs, what matters is the fact that they try to force it on everyone else. You think being gay is bad? Then don't be gay yourseld. You think getting an abortion is bad? Then don't get an abortion. But the moment you try to force that on anyone else is the moment you're inviting the world to shit on you. After all, no one is passing laws to discriminate against straight cis people, or forcing everyone to get an abortion.

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