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That's awful. hope you were able to remove yourself from that situation, ive dropped all communication from my father.
I speak with my mother as she seems to of turned a leaf but last year I was talking with her about cptsd and she asked if she caused any of it, I was very honest and said she had a small part in (I didn't live with my mother till my teens but when I moved there-was no heating, food or parenting happening as well as her manipulative/abusive partner I soon choose to sleep on a sofa at my grandparents for the next 8 years) I didn't call my mother out on this as she started crying a lot and I took back what I said.
Trauma usually breeds trauma and her father was an alcoholic gambling Irish man so I understand that she wasn't given the best chance in life and she now recognises this. I'm pretty proud of her tbf
Ya eventually he divorced my mom and the whole family and fucked off with someone my age 🤮
Much better off cutting the hurtful people out of your life. I’m happy to hear things are better with your mom.