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You may not have created specific communities, but both mental health advice and legal commentary are being offered in the communities already created. Does this mean those contents should be avoided and/or reported? I hope not... they're actually interesting.
That gets us back to my initial question: if I speak about a subject that has direct effects on me, but only tangentially references effects on others but not on me... what's the stance on that?
Fun fact: my "sexualization of minors" ban on Reddit came from citing a book... so this doesn't seem like a safe recommendation... ๐
I got that, don't make people uncomfortable. I'm even fine with backing off when made aware of it, even if I actually have more than amateurish knowledge about a subject. Heck, I'm even fine with my expert knowledge getting removed (did that on Reddit myself already).
What I wouldn't like, is to get banned because someone felt uncomfortable and I wasn't made aware, or someone thought that someone might have felt uncomfortable by proxy, without a chance to fix it.
I agree with that.
My objection was that there are people "out there" who will use any subject to dehumanize others, even when the subjects themselves are not inherently dehumanizing and can otherwise be discussed with respect. Should we let third parties guide which subjects should be banned, just because someone might have seen them use it in a dehumanizing way?
There is also the matter of which people "are present", since the contents here are public and even federated, so technically "everyone is present".
Yeah... it's not an attractive task. I was thinking that since mods are going to see the content anyway, you could run it as a kind of FAQ, just add items to a list when you see them appear on the instance. Kind of "I'll know it when I see it, and now everyone else will too".
I wonder if a list could be extracted from the modlog... I'll look into that.
The best I can say to you at this point is that if you've received pushback in the past it's probably not meant for this site. I can't itemize everything for you. I understand you're neurodivergent and need a bit more clarity on what's acceptable and what's not but I don't have the time to build that list for you. Maybe just avoid any subject you have questions about or haven't seen others discussing to be safe
Make that neurodivergent, disabled, and abused for enough time to have received pushback on all subjects. At this point I feel like the only safe course of action is to shut up and disappear, since I'm definitely not going to go to "free speech" places to get more of the same. Anyway, sorry for dragging this out, and guess we'll just see how it goes.