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How do you like to cheer yourself up when you're sad? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 8 months ago by FeelThePower@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Feeling a bit down tonight. How do you guys like to lighten up?

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[–] metaStatic@kbin.social 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

listen to sad songs

[–] kattenluik@feddit.nl 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

That doesn't sound like it'd help

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Sometimes the only way to deal with bad emotions is to go through them. It's good to take time and recognize your emotions and explore them, if that makes sense. Listening to sad songs might help with that and it helps you feel not alone because someone else feels bad too.

It is important to not dwell too much or else you might turn into a teenage angst version of me and no one wants that.