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Why?
13/30 is rather problematic
That's not about the gap. That's about the age. That's an entirely different thing.
What's 13/30 mean? I hope you don't mean 13yo. Why would you think that's what I meant by age gap?
… a 13 year old with a 30 year old…
Why would you assume that from just saying "age gap"?
… I was making a joke about it by saying ‘depends on the age gap lol’…
Why are you getting defensive?
Ofc consenting adult relationships with large age gaps are generally fine with some exceptions.
I got the joke. Made perfect sense in the context of the thread.
Because child abuse is a weird thing to joke about.
If you wanna be annoyingly puritanical about it go ahead. I didn’t mean to offend your sensibilities.