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[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

That's insane! Why wouldn't she have given you an A to motivate you / reward you for the hard work!?

[–] twoshoes@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I don't want to be too "we live in a society" but I noticed that - since I'm a man / was a boy - people in care giving roles usually assumed I want to prove myself. Because All Boys™ want to prove themselves all of the time. So it's good to be as adversarial as possible, actually. To grow their character.

Regarding her generation and type of character, I wouldn't be too surprised to learn that she thought she was actually doing me a favor. Also she co-taught our class with another teacher who quite openly disliked boys in general and me in particular. Which was probably also a factor.