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Men over 30, how often do you see your friends? (jlai.lu)

submitted 9 months ago by Servais@jlai.lu to c/askmenover30@lemm.ee

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I guess the answers are going to vary a lot depending on people's familial situations, but curious to see the answers.

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[–] Onii-Chan@kbin.social 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Far less than is optimal. I work a lot, and when I'm not working, I'm too tired to do much else. My best mate and I used to hang out once a week or so, drinking more than a few beers whilst playing video games or watching dumb shit on YouTube. It was great, but life just got busy. I'll see him once a year, maybe twice if I'm lucky. It also doesn't help that I'm neurodivergent, so the percentage of people I develop genuine personal chemistry with is very low.

Not fun, but eh. I'm making money.