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I think I got a crush on my dance instructor. Which fucking sucks for all the obvious reasons. Normally I wouldn't be so worried. BUT I JUST HAD A GODDAMN ROMANTIC DREAM ABOUT HER. Seriously I just woke up from a dream about her confessing her love to me and me eagerly doing the same about her.

So how do you stop a crush from developing further? Because this is a well from which only disappointment may be drawn.

Edit: I am single btw.

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[–] XEAL@lemm.ee 11 points 9 months ago (9 children)

From my own experience: cut all contact with that person... which may not be viable in your situation.

[–] throwawaysalami@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

So it's either quit dancing or develop romantic feelings for her? Q.E.D. I'm fucked.

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I mean, you can find a new dance instructor.

[–] RootBeerGuy@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, salami, can you just switch classes? Or another dance studio, same course or something?

[–] throwawaysalami@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Yeah that's actually not that bad of an idea. If things go south I'll use this as a last resort. Change dance studios that is.

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