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How did you find force, strength to fight the toughest battles in your life? (feddit.de)

submitted 1 year ago by ilk@feddit.de to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Also what was the battle about, if you are comfortable in sharing?

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[–] Helix@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Looking inwards and thinking about what the root cause of the issue is. Often I found that the root cause was different to what I initially believed.

It also often helped to not only do a root cause analysis, but to reflect back on past instances with similar problems and doing a post mortem analysis for them.

Root cause analyses and post mortems are pretty common in the tech world, where I work and where they helped me solve many issues. But they're also useful when you can detach yourself emotionally from a personal issue and ask yourself what is really preventing you from succeeding.