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[–] Goodman@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 10 months ago

Don't you think that this "men are here to be practical" theory has some gaps? Like there are plenty of men who do the things that you describe as unnecessary

  • What if you just likes cooking or fancy meals?
  • What if your cleanliness standards are just higher?

I'm not saying that barns should be sweeped or that everyone should cook fancy meals. But to say that people who do do that are (as you seem to be implying) overdoing it, or impractical is a bit unfair I think. I am also quite practical but still respect that others have higher standards or just "want things their way" which should be at least a little relatable to everyone.