this post was submitted on 14 Dec 2023
113 points (83.8% liked)

Ask Lemmy

26831 readers
1868 users here now

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions

Please don't post about US Politics. If you need to do this, try !politicaldiscussion@lemmy.world


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have funDoxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spamPlease do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reasonJust remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either !asklemmyafterdark@lemmy.world or !asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email info@lemmy.world. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] fireweed@lemmy.world 88 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (5 children)

Millennials grew up in the 90s, possibly one of the "best" decades in modern history: good economy, closest we've gotten to "world peace," comparative political stability and "quiet" (the biggest scandal in US politics was Monica Lewinsky), and problems existed but generally seemed to be getting better with time not worse. The 90s were an optimistic time, especially considering the snowballing disaster of a 21st century that followed.

Edit: also advancements in science and technology were bright and exciting, without the constant existential dread of "what calamity have we unleashed this time?" The biggest tech/science-advancement ethical debate I remember was about cloning people, which is a genuine sci-fi-esque moral quandary but ended up being generally moot in reality.

[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 53 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Yeah, but us millennials were only teenagers at best, toddlers at the youngest. Not really enough time to do anything with it. So while we got to experience a cool time in our youths, we had it all ripped away as soon as the .com bubble burst, and then 9/11 hit, along with other mixed events, like the Unabomber, Columbine, etc. We were also the first in line to get sent to Afghanistan.

Meanwhile Gen X got to live their adult lives during the 90s and make a name for themselves.

[–] fireweed@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Sure, some aspects of the 00s were shit, but that felt like a bump in the road: things were still on the up-and-up overall, and the general expectation was that we could change the future for the better, resolve the world's issues, and live better lives than our parents. That all came crashing down sometime around 2010 with the Great Recession, failure of Occupy, and realization that Obama wasn't the knight in shining armor we'd literally hoped for. So the difference is that Millennials remember a pre-9/11 world and the less-great-but-still-hopeful early 00s, whereas Gen Z doesn't.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Someone recently asked why the devil admitted he'd lost the fiddling match with Johnny. They said "If he's the devil why didn't he just claim he'd won?".

I'd never asked myself that before. It had never occurred to me that the devil might cheat in a contest.

It made me realize that the dominant view of how people operate has changed in our culture. We now tend to assume people are slimeballs. The shittiest, back-stabbiest, most underhanded dishonest stuff now seems like normal behavior. Not even consciously necessarily. We just assume everyone is a barely-held-together antihero just looking for an excuse to take the gloves off and do nasty shit, and that we're only good to our tight inner circle while it's okay to treat the rest of the world like garbage.

It's our zeitgeist. I'm finally starting to grok that word's meaning, after having lived through four decades.

[–] squiblet@kbin.social 1 points 11 months ago (2 children)

This is beside your point but a related question to the first part is, why does Satan punish bad people? Shouldn’t he appreciate that about them?

[–] Nepenthe@kbin.social 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Satan doesn't punish. Satan's whole job is temptation. Anyone tempted would technically be punished by god.

I assume the mixup has to be resultant of the constant game of religious Telephone. Not really surprising. It's pretty awkward to frame your spotless savior who is the living embodiment of Love as also doing deliberate premeditated torture, even when it's written right there. And comparatively simple to expect it from someone who's supposed to embody unpleasantness.

[–] squiblet@kbin.social 1 points 11 months ago

What’s hell all about, then? I always understood from Christian theology that it was a place controlled by Satan where Bad People are tortured for an infinite amount of time after death.

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

God punishes them. Satan just does his job.

[–] squiblet@kbin.social 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I thought Satan was a rebel. Now he's just an employee?

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

Clocks in and out every day

[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Oh yeah I don't disagree that gen z is fucked

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 months ago

I'd say that we're all fucked. There's going to be at least one global population correction in the next century. Even if we are able to push it back through mitigation, new development, geoengineering, luck and pluck, the zoomers are going to see it by midlife and everyone's life will be defined by it the way Dresden hit Kurt Vonnegut.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 6 points 11 months ago

How much of a name did you make for yourself by 22?

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 9 points 11 months ago

At least where I live as a millennial you could have had a really nice childhood - until you finished school. Most struggled to find a job. Businesses would hire you as unpaid intern at best, etc. All while your parents (the boomers) expected you to have house, car and family in your twenties.

[–] Wolpertinger@sh.itjust.works 7 points 11 months ago

The 90s were the calm before the storm.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago

Our biggest environmental worry was landfills growing to cover the entire planet. We were all convinced this was our fate and that we had to recycle everything mainly to protect ourselves from having to live on ever-expanding waste dumps.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.mindoki.com 6 points 11 months ago

I thought we gen X were the youngsters in the nineties :-)