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Should I change my name? (linux.community)

submitted 1 year ago by ExLisper@linux.community to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Hi,

So I have lived in Spain now for almost 10 years and I will be applying for citizenship soon. As part of this process I can pretty much chose my Spanish name. Or I can keep my polish name.

The problem is that my name is very polish, like Grzegorz Filipowski. Every time someone has to write it down and look me up in a database I have to show them my ID. When it happens over the phone I have to spell it. Every time I meet someone they ask me what's my name is and then repeatedly try to pronounce it while I say 'yeah... close enough'. It's pretty annoying and it would be solved by simply changing my name to something Spanish like Gregorio González or something.

What do you think? Would you see it as a practical thing to do or as a stupid intent at impersonating a real Spaniard?

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[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes if it feels comfortable to you and will make your life easier, change it.

I had my name legally changed in 2018 to something I feel more comfortable with. Love it. No regrets.

[–] ExLisper@linux.community 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How was the transition? Did you correct everyone when they used the old name or do you just let old friends keep using it? I would just let my polish friends/family use my polish name obviously.

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I only changed my last name. Surnames rarely come up in conversation.