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You would think that they would be overly helpful when all they do is say it's the moral way to eat. Looking down on everyone who eats meat and then give you shit for trying to be on their side....weird.
I've personally spent a decent amount of time in vegan and vegan debate subreddits, so I could probably offer a bit of insight. My general approach goal was to be helpful and non-judgemental as possible, but to also be assertive. There are a few caveats in no particular order:
If a post hits r/all, you get a lot of mean and rude people, as well as trolls. Suffering them gets draining. It's basically the cashier "it's not ringing up so it's free?" joke equivalent, but worse since it's not even in good faith. There's only so many times you can read "loll bacon" without getting a little depressed about humanity.
For those that aren't trolling, many are highly misinformed. It can be challenging to manage their experience and present information in a way that doesn't bruise their ego a little. I've slowly learned to get better at this, but it's a process.
Both people who were helpful and those who were rude helped me transition to veganism. The "rude" vegans often raised cognitive dissonance the most and really forced me to think things through myself. I'm sure there are plenty of people who might not respond in this way, but it did help me, and a lot of other vegans have said the same.
Being vegan can be kinda depressing. When the large majority of society performs actions that you believe to be immoral, and you still have to integrate, it starts to tear at you a little. Sometimes it's just too much to put up with, and a mean little joke at someone else's expense slips out. That's why we had places specifically for that sort of venting. But then people (usually with an agenda) would point to those places, and use them as examples, and you get the MEAN VEGAN stereotype.
A lot of them do it for the dopamine of feeling better about it. Not out of a rational decision to be better. Most people live and die by what gives them their feel good chemicals
Exactly! It felt like going to a church that immediately condemns its parishioners and then wonders why it has no parishioners.
It's just human psychology. A lot of them do it as much because it makes them feel superior to others as for moral reasons. People failing at it makes them that much more special for succeeding.