Then this sounds like an actual mental health thing and not a dog whistle. I don't actually have any answers. Just years of experience reading useless internet comments.

Seek a professional if you can. I don't even know if you're in a nation where just looking for help wouldn't get you or your friend killed. Good luck.

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Thanks! That's kind of how I feel too, it's a really difficult topic because of what was mentioned before as far as connecting mental health to attraction, but there definitely seems to be some forms of attraction that are problematic.

From what I remember at the time, I believe he said he can't go get help because they have a duty to report him if he were to bring it up. Anyway, thanks for the time!

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Imagine my own shame and horror at discovering I’m only sexually attracted to drunk people.