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[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago

This is actually ridiculous

People are frequently judgmental of what others enjoy, and it can be harmful (kinkshaming) but it can also just help us find more enjoyable things to do, it can feed ego and hedonism.
Other groups of people love to share details about what they enjoy.

"You shouldn't care what other people think" is almost literally bad advice because its so vague.

Perhaps... You can choose to ignore what others say about the things you enjoy, you can decide to keep it a secret, or you can use other people to help find answers to life's never ending question: "How can I have a good time?"