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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.

Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.

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This is a really stupid question I know but recently I had a bi cycle and I want to be able to me more attracted to guys again. I don't like the fact that I'm nearly straight rn. Is there any way to influence who I'm attracted to?

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[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

What's the timespan? Mine only last a couple days at most. If it's that long, just chill and wait.

It's worth inspecting why you don't like being nearly straight. I'm slightly traumatized and afraid of women because of an abusive ex. My fear of losing interest in men it's partly attached to that.

I've found that when I'm in a woman phase, it's often because I haven't seen a beautiful man in a while. Same the other way too. Then I see one and suddenly I'm into men/women again. Being bi doesn't mean you MUST be attracted to all men or all women. Let's be real.

Maybe you just need to meet someone your type to end the cycle.