Dislodge3233

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[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 20 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

My mom says I'm very important ... so I'll assume this was a state actor

But yeah, this is most likely. I changed my settings to lock faster with a longer pin

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 13 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Yeah. Definitely setting that up now haha. They used my phone to call my contacts, so I don't have their number

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Yeah, but the calls were from my phone, so I think they would have to open it

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 3 points 11 months ago

Yeah. They were accessed while the phone was lost

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 6 points 11 months ago

Graphene has and emergency dialer, but you can't call my contacts from it.

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 20 points 11 months ago (9 children)

Fingerprint and pin code. They left the phone at a store nearby and I went to pick it up

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah. It was clearly good will. Even the banking, they probably didn't realize the app was banking (foreign bank). Signal was Molly, so they honestly were personally confused since I run KISS Launcher.

The problem is that they used my phone to call my contacts.

 

I'm running Graphene on a Pixel 6. I lost it and someone opened it somehow and called two of my contacts to give it back.

I'm a bit confused how this even happened. When I got the phone back, they were going through my contacts. I checked app usage stats and they went through a banking app (not missing money), maps, signal, etc.

Is there a way to figure out how they even unlocked my phone?

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 5 points 11 months ago

Yeah. Honestly, 99% of the time my kid is having a fit, it's because he's hungry. I never yell either. Never have and probably never will (barring seriously dangerous things that need to immediately stop).

After a couple months of feeding him when he's upset, watching him calm down, apologizing if I angered him and then asking him if maybe he was so angry because he was really hungry, now he'll actually tell me mid-fit that he's really hungry. Or sleepy, scared, etc. Talking basic needs, not just hunger.

Honestly I'm really happy. The emotional maturity of a toddler that can recognize that in large part his anger is being hungry it's pretty cool.

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 5 points 11 months ago

I got ads for sexual assault therapy after I talked to my friend about my assault. I was livid. The audacity to try to make money off assault victims.

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 2 points 11 months ago

Use OnlyKey for master passwords

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 18 points 11 months ago

And then parents wonder why their children don't talk about their private lives.

Not only would you have emotionally abused me. When the state protects me, you would have sued for the right to abuse me.

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 5 points 11 months ago

Wait till they learn about prostates

 

My kid [3yrs] speaks the local language with his other parent (separated. 50/50). and English with me (my native language). I speak both and my kid knows this, so I can't hide it.

He speaks the local language well, but English is a struggle. Comprehension is 100%, but he only speaks random words. He mostly speaks to me in the local language. Where we live, he will learn English in school, so I'm not worried about that.

I've tried various things to get him speaking English, but it's a struggle.

Are there any strategies that might work?

 

I didn't see this on any privacy guide, but with minimal work, you can have a cloud drive that's accessible from your phone and laptop.

Basically setup Rclone mounted => Rclone crypt => Rclone + Backblaze. Dump all your files and it works like a normal cloud drive. Android Rclone client is here https://github.com/newhinton/Round-Sync/releases

Round Sync let's you setup Cronjobs so you can backup all your photos or whatever automatically. I have a job that syncs all my photos to my drive every couple days.

I store a lot in Backblaze and it's <1USD/mo. I can provide details if there is interest.

 

I'm preparing to file a complaint that may result in retaliation. My company might try to lay me off to make me go away. What should I do to prepare?

I'm currently,

  • collecting performance reviews
  • evidence that they are not planning to lay me off at the moment
  • evidence to support my complaint

Anything else I should do?

 

I'm in the market for books that normalize poly parenting. I have the Red Stroller for normalizing different family types (eg. single parent, gay, interracial).

My child's other parent (separated) is very conservative and my family is too. I'm not trying to "push" poly, but prepare my kid mentally/emotionally if people say shit about me. I still have several years before I would need to come out.

 

For example, ones that implement these guidelines? https://madaidans-insecurities.github.io/guides/linux-hardening.html

Alternatively, packages for Fedora that would set this up automatically

 

Where I live, Google Maps is the only mapping option.

Is there anyway to download the route as .ics to add to Proton Calendar?

 

Lesbians have Sappho to get cute stuff from. I'm looking for something similar for men, that's pro-gay or anti homophobe.

Needs to be subtle and an "if you know you know" vibe because I want to make art things in a homophobic area.

Any ideas?

 

I'm particularly interested in highlighting the scientific method or historical method. Preferably with short episodes of ~10min and not too flashy/magical.

Any recommendations?

 
 

I called some people I'm seeing partners, but got scolded by a friend because I guess partner means a relationship that's more "serious". My friend suggested calling them lovers.

I'm emotionally involved with all my people and I care about them. I just get an ick from labels and relationship ladders (abusive family).

I'm looking for a word that's unassuming, but clearly says "I'm not single" so I can easily be honest with monogamous people.

Any suggestions? Lover sounds a little too much like cheating.

 

I read things like "70% of emissions are by large energy companies". It often seems to be followed by claims that individual action is insignificant.

The logic seems off because if everyone stopped buying from those companies, then the emissions would be gone. Or in effect, buying from those companies buys you a share of the emissions.

Is there a good breakdown of the emissions? What percent is attributable to the consumer? Am I missing something?

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