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[–] Rachelhazideas@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You say that as if altering clothing isn't something that takes time to learn, time to do, risks of ruining your clothes, affect it's durability, and difficult to do well. If it were so easy no one would pay for it to be done. Go to your local tailor and ask how much it is to hem a pair of pants or take the waist in.

Imagine everytine you buy a pair of pants you have to mentally prepare yourself to put the time and effort into sewing your own pants, something that most guys don't have to do.

[–] Justas@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

The store I buy jeans from adjusts the length for free.