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Then don't chase something you don't enjoy! If you want to meet new people, be enthusiastic and have fun in what you're doing right now, whatever it is. When I've learnt something in the last few years, then it is to have fun and enjoy yourself. Others will notice and will be interested into you.
You're into books? Get a library card and ask the handsome lady next to you out. You enjoy collecting postcards? Weird, but interesting! Will be a great conversation starter. You get my point?
I do but talking to girls is how you get cooties.