this post was submitted on 05 Sep 2023
153 points (93.2% liked)

No Stupid Questions

35728 readers
979 users here now

No such thing. Ask away!

!nostupidquestions is a community dedicated to being helpful and answering each others' questions on various topics.

The rules for posting and commenting, besides the rules defined here for lemmy.world, are as follows:

Rules (interactive)


Rule 1- All posts must be legitimate questions. All post titles must include a question.

All posts must be legitimate questions, and all post titles must include a question. Questions that are joke or trolling questions, memes, song lyrics as title, etc. are not allowed here. See Rule 6 for all exceptions.



Rule 2- Your question subject cannot be illegal or NSFW material.

Your question subject cannot be illegal or NSFW material. You will be warned first, banned second.



Rule 3- Do not seek mental, medical and professional help here.

Do not seek mental, medical and professional help here. Breaking this rule will not get you or your post removed, but it will put you at risk, and possibly in danger.



Rule 4- No self promotion or upvote-farming of any kind.

That's it.



Rule 5- No baiting or sealioning or promoting an agenda.

Questions which, instead of being of an innocuous nature, are specifically intended (based on reports and in the opinion of our crack moderation team) to bait users into ideological wars on charged political topics will be removed and the authors warned - or banned - depending on severity.



Rule 6- Regarding META posts and joke questions.

Provided it is about the community itself, you may post non-question posts using the [META] tag on your post title.

On fridays, you are allowed to post meme and troll questions, on the condition that it's in text format only, and conforms with our other rules. These posts MUST include the [NSQ Friday] tag in their title.

If you post a serious question on friday and are looking only for legitimate answers, then please include the [Serious] tag on your post. Irrelevant replies will then be removed by moderators.



Rule 7- You can't intentionally annoy, mock, or harass other members.

If you intentionally annoy, mock, harass, or discriminate against any individual member, you will be removed.

Likewise, if you are a member, sympathiser or a resemblant of a movement that is known to largely hate, mock, discriminate against, and/or want to take lives of a group of people, and you were provably vocal about your hate, then you will be banned on sight.



Rule 8- All comments should try to stay relevant to their parent content.



Rule 9- Reposts from other platforms are not allowed.

Let everyone have their own content.



Rule 10- Majority of bots aren't allowed to participate here.



Credits

Our breathtaking icon was bestowed upon us by @Cevilia!

The greatest banner of all time: by @TheOneWithTheHair!

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 

Someone asked a question about how frequently young people have time to socialize and it made me think about what people do with their evenings. I recently asked my son to go to a concert (free ticket to see a band i know he likes) and he declined because it was an hour away on a weeknight. If we invite our kids or niece/nephew to dinner they always want to go at 6/630 which feels so early. Edit: Kids are 30ish.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] Turkey_Titty_city@kbin.social 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

yeah i'm not even counting tipping. that shit is insane. lots of places in my city now want a 20% tip, and a 5-10% fee. on top of a 9% tax. So basically your meal is now 35-40% more than the prices in the menu. and it's expect at literally every joint now, take out and coffee joints too.

it's just not worth it. for that kind of pricing I'm better off just getting delivery. which is what i do now. ubereats is a 20% tip and like a $5 delivery fee. it's cheaper and i don't have to deal with slow/rude service and other customers being loud and obnoxious.

[–] BassaForte@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I still tip 15% most of the time. Tip flation is a scam when tips are already a percentage of the total. Don't feel forced to tip more.

[–] Turkey_Titty_city@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

speak for yourself. in my city people shame you for not tipping 30%. I tip 20% and people tell me I'm an asshole.

[–] BassaForte@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

That's surprising. But I live in a pretty medium city

[–] redballooon@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

😳 US pricing in restaurants felt always crazy to me, but this just sounds crazy!

[–] Today@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We doordash or order from the restaurant more than going out because of the tip and restaurant alcohol costs.

[–] 121mhz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Don't forget to tip your dasher!

Nah, fuck that. I stopped ordering from apps. If I want takeout, I call the restaurant or use the restaurant's website directly. GrubHub and Door dash add fees to the items' cost and then delivery costs and then want you to tip the driver. I can drive myself, or walk in some cases, and pickup my own food. My orders went from like $95 down to like $65 instantly (family of 4)!

[–] Today@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I do usually check the restaurant website first to see if they have their own system or just link to dd, etc. Need to start doing the call in/pick up.