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The way I feel like everyone sees me is the first photo in this gallery, I am really ugly as you can see. Secondly I feel like the other photos are lies.

https://imgur.com/a/gd8lhZo

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[–] TheBest@midwest.social 9 points 1 year ago

That picture was a pure snippit of you. It took confidence to ask the unknown lurkers for their input, and confidence is beautiful and strong. Even if your physical attributes aren't to your liking, your personality will be what sticks with people.

Im not sure you can make blanket "as you can see" comments like that. I don't see ugly. I see someone who was determined enough to graduate.

Please reevaluate why you feel ugly and address it by making choices YOU feel will fix it, one step at a time.