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[–] PeachyMcPeachface@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago (6 children)

"lame" isn't super appreciated here. At best it's a homophone of a word that is ableist. At worst, people are actively being ableist. You never know with the internet, we have a ton of extremely problematic people pop in and use words that mean the second option. There's just better ways to express disbelief or calling someone socially inept.

But yeah, prude.

[–] vardogor@mander.xyz 32 points 1 year ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)
[–] pm_me_your_thoughts@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] bingbong@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago

"copypasta" isn't super appreciated here. At best it's a homophone of a word that is ableist. At worst, people are actively being ableist. You never know with the internet, we have a ton of extremely problematic people pop in and use words that mean the second option. There's just better ways to express disbelief or calling someone socially inept.

But yeah, prude.

[–] Sloth@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, I don't think I've ever seen someone use the old definition of lame unless they were being intentionally antiquated, and even then, never in a way to put someone down.

[–] rgb3x3@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago

Lame, sucks, bad, etc. They all mean the same thing, essentially.

There is absolutely nothing ableist about using lame. Nobody uses it to mean impotent or unable.

[–] pimento64@sopuli.xyz 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Imagine having the privilege of so much free time that you can afford to purity test people whom you know full well are using colloquialisms.

[–] PeachyMcPeachface@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Oh sorry you're right mods shouldn't do anything to try and make a leftist trans space more welcoming to people 🙄 silly me. I'll just ban anything I don't like and abuse my power rather than wanting to have a discussion. We'll also go back to calling things "gay" to mean undesirable because it was colloquialism. Words don't matter, right? /s

[–] pimento64@sopuli.xyz 13 points 1 year ago

When you intentionally misinterpret people and childishly insult them, as you have done to others in this thread, you debase them more than if you used a word with a "problematic" etymology because you're attacking them directly. When you use histrionics, however, you debase yourself.

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 14 points 1 year ago

"ass" used to mean donkey. Do most people use it to mean donkey now? No. Do some still? Maybe. Terms evolve, it's a big lingusistic thing, happens in every language with speakers

[–] Ado@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] bingbong@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago

"lmao" isn't super appreciated here. At best it's a homophone of a word that is ableist. At worst, people are actively being ableist. You never know with the internet, we have a ton of extremely problematic people pop in and use words that mean the second option. There's just better ways to express disbelief or calling someone socially inept.

But yeah, dude.

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

I had to re-read this a few times, but I see what you mean. I'll try to be more direct about what I mean to say.