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Have you ever been sexually attracted to someone you found repulsive? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by spitz@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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It happened to me recently at work. I don't even find her physically attractive, and her personality is not what I'm into at all. But I was still somehow attracted to her - and she also was to me. She didn't like me, and I certainly am not the kind of man she goes for. It's like we had a strong connection in one area beneath the subconscious or something, but every other area was completely incompatible. Aggressively so.

Anyone else have anything similar?

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[–] spitz@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Actually, one of my exes really liked a song called Fuck Me Like You Hate Me. She was also quite hatable. It added some spice in the bedroom, but a high price was paid. I'm not really interested in revisiting that...

[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

By Seether? I take it? It's one of my favorites by them, its got a good beat to it lol

[–] spitz@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

Yes, that's the one. I prefer their cover of Careless Whisper, personally. That song also has a very strong her-to-me vibe.