Asklemmy

As you mention, "just asking questions" is a common way to backdoor hate against marginalized groups, and its acceptance is a sign that a space condones the reactionary view. Anyone that is here in good faith looking to understand trans rights without implicitly challenging them should be directed to a separate space where they can learn. Outside of that, they should et dunked on, have their message removed, and face a ban.

The only reason it is tolerated in any form here is that at least one admin (which one we don't know) is cool with transphobia and doesn't see it as being so bad, and they can get away with it because transphobia is normalized. If you swapped the scenario to something that is not normalized, like "just asking questions about the inferiority of black people", you'd see a stronger response because anti-blackness, while still present, is less tolerated in its explicit form.

Notably, the trans person that reacted to this harassment was banned site-wide while the transphobe was not and had their comment restored by an admin, overriding the mod that removed it.

Bigots will play that game all day and win. @dessalines@lemmy.ml I know you're busy but this is unacceptable.