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[–] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

what word would you use instead?

[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"African-Americans Gone Wild" or "People of Color Gone Wild " just don't seem to have the same ring to it, I guess. I'm pretty sure almost any other term you might use would be frowned upon.

[–] ShrimpsIsBugs@programming.dev 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not all black people are African-American or even African or American, you know? I'd be way more irritated if someone called me African-American than black, since one of these is true and the other simply isn't.

[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that’s why I added the “People of Color Gone Wild”, since the other isn’t really all-inclusive. Race is so weird to talk about in the US though, it’s like no matter how you talk about it as a white person, you’re stepping on somebody’s toes somewhere. It’s like we can’t even discuss anything without the terminology itself becoming an issue, which just sort of derails any other conversations you might be having. I get why the topic is necessary in some cases, but it feels like it needlessly complicated things at times.

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Ebony, or GoneWildColor as the existing reddit community was already named.

[–] Pyroglyph@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Calling black people "ebony" is like calling white people "porcelain". It's romanticising their skin colour. It may make sense for things like porn, but please don't refer to any group with that sort of name in a normal context. It's incredibly weird.

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Exactly right, but the context being discussed is porn.

[–] Pyroglyph@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yes, but you've also said that referring to people as "black" is dehumanising, and then you were asked what word you'd use instead.
At this moment it isn't unreasonable to think the context has changed from porn community titles to your personal thoughts on how to refer to a specific ethnic group in any situation.
That's how I (and I assume many others) read the situation.

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 year ago

> Yes, but you’ve also said that referring to people as “black” is dehumanising

No. Myself, and the commenter who was being responded to, said that referring to Black people as "blacks" is dehumanizing, which it is, and the context being asked for was an alternative term for an NSFW community. Hopefully that clarifies the issue.

[–] DokPsy@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I believe you'll find that it's Ebony and Ivory. .... Side by side in perfect harmony

[–] Stinkywinks@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Pretty sure they prefer black like native Americans prefer Indians. Can we call people white? I've never heard anyone wants to be called ebony. I only know the term ebony from porn

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

>"Pretty sure they"...

Nope, I'll stop you right there. And the context is porn. Note, again, the term being discussed is not Black, which is perfectly kosher, but referring to Black people as "blacks", which is considered dehumanizing.

As for alternatives, the existing PoC-run reddit communities are called Ebony, GoneWildColor, GWBlackGirls, etc. Hopefully that gives you some insight.

[–] Stinkywinks@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah because the majority of blacks use reddit and ebony porn sites. So do you call them ebonies?

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not exactly sure what you're asking, but no, collective nouns aren't generally pluralized in English, nor is the term appropriate outside of a porn context. Are you a native English speaker?

[–] Stinkywinks@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why is the term acceptable to porn, do they not use English?

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's far more acceptable than "blacks". It also avoids the issue of associating general search terms for groups of people with sexualized contexts as has unfortunately been done to Asian women and others.

[–] Stinkywinks@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Pfffffft, sounds like a load of bs. What about Brazilians?

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Brazilian isn't a race, and Black isn't a nationality. Incredibly, it's even possible to be both. I hope your confusion has been cleared up.

[–] Stinkywinks@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

You said Asians. So what about Persians?

[–] Stinkywinks@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Blacks and whites. Indians and Asians. Look, it's plural. Add an S, guess it's dehumanizing? I think the term daddy is dehumanizing. Please, only use dad. Do not add another dy.

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yes, generally referring to groups of people as pluralized adjectives is considered dehumanizing.

>Note that Blacks and the Blacks are both considered offensive and should not be used. Black people is the preferred plural form of Black.

https://www.archives.gov/research/catalog/lcdrg/appendix/black-person

>[A]im to use Black as an adjective, not a noun. Also, when describing a group, use Black people instead of just “Blacks.”

https://nabjonline.org/news-media-center/styleguide/#styleguidea

This is for the exact same reason you would not refer to a singular Black person as "a black". If you still have trouble perceiving the issue, consider how jarring the term "a gay" would seem in print.

[–] Stinkywinks@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I didn't say "a black", context matters no? Everyone thought saying Indian was offensive and came up with native American, until realizing that is more offensive? Just because it's plural doesn't make it dehumanizing. Black people says blacks, I don't hear them say a group of black people.

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Are you under the impression that race and nationality are equivalent? If you're asking whether the term is considered dehumanizing, that's been answered for you, and if you're asking why, that's been answered as well. In English, racial and ethnic terms are generally used as adjectives, and we don't use adjectives as nouns when referring to groups of people.

[–] Stinkywinks@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think what is dehumanizing is a matter of opinion

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago

Exactly, and only one fucking opinion matters. That of the people affected. Glad we cleared that up, cheers.

[–] pascal@lemm.ee -3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When I lived in Kenya, basically every one called me musungu which is used for westerns but means literally "white face", I don't think I felt dehumanised, but that was years ago before Chinese people invaded Kenya.

[–] pyff@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] pascal@lemm.ee -3 points 1 year ago

Oh, sorry, my point of view from another part of the world that doesn't endorse your agenda is too much inconvenient for you?

[–] MBM@lemmings.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just black, as in "the black version of gonewild"

[–] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] troglodytis@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 1 year ago

black gone wild, blacks gone wild, what's the difference? just a single letter? how is one respectful and the other not?