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[โ€“] croobat@lemmy.world 75 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[โ€“] mbryson@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 year ago

Massive one. People automatically assume those who have defined areas that others are not allowed to access (ie personal/physical contact, topics of communication, literal areas they restrict in their home, etc) are prudish and being willfully obstinate for unfounded reasons, without considering why these boundaries are set in the first place.

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