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Chronic Illness

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A community/support group for chronically ill people. While anyone is welcome, our number one priority is keeping this a safe space for chronically ill people.

This is a support group, not a place for people to spout their opinions on disability.

Rules

  1. Be excellent to each other

  2. Absolutely no ableism. This includes harmful stereotypes: lazy/freeloaders etc

  3. No quackery. Does an up-to date major review in a big journal or a major government guideline come to the conclusion you’re claiming is fact? No? Then don’t claim it’s fact. This applies to potential treatments and disease mechanisms.

  4. No denialism or minimisation This applies challenges faced by chronically ill people.

  5. No psychosomatising psychosomatisation is a tool used by insurance companies and governments to blame physical illnesses on mental problems, and thereby saving money by not paying benefits. There is no concrete proof psychosomatic or functional disease exists with the vast majority of historical diagnoses turning out to be biomedical illnesses medicine has not discovered yet. Psychosomatics is rooted in misogyny, and consisted up until very recently of blaming women’s health complaints on “hysteria”.

Did your post/comment get removed? Before arguing with moderators consider that the goal of this community is to provide a safe space for people suffering from chronic illness. Moderation may be heavy handed at times. If you don’t like that, find or create another community that prioritises something else.

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[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 36 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Why the fuck people coming in here and being like "why spoons?? Just say 'energy'???" or whatever.

I'll tell you why: because when we say "energy", people start giving unsolicited advice on how to get more energy: take vitamins, eat healthy foods, go for a walk! Which.... you know, most of us do those things. And some of us can't do some of those things like the typical population.

Spoons run out. I'm out of spoons. I can't make more spoons. It will take time for the number of spoons to replenish to the point where I am able to hand out more. Until then: I am out of spoons. I can't give you a spoon.

[–] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Drag calls them spell slots

"Can't come to the party today, drag's out of spell slots. No, drag can't just take a short rest, drag's a wizard. No, drag won't sell drag's soul to Asmodeus."

Good for drag. Life is a marathon not a race.