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Conveniences, automation, safety plans, etc. Everyone loves winging it and having piles of chores, but then they complain about life being hard, but then they don't change anything

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[–] kersploosh@sh.itjust.works 9 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Smooth, predictable operation requires forethought, planning, and willingness to stick to a process. It's not nearly as fun as living in the moment and improvising.

[–] TokenEffort@sh.itjust.works -4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

It's fun having peace of mind though. It's fun being able to binge movies without suddenly realizing you forgot something important. It's fun being able to nap without waking up in a cold sweat because you forgot to take out trash for the tenth week in a row. It's fun being able to forget the time and get immersed in hobbies.

[–] kersploosh@sh.itjust.works 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Oh, I completely get it. It's a battle of delayed gratification versus instant gratification. I can take care of business now and have stress-free fun later, or I can have fun now and let future-me deal with the consequences.

[–] TokenEffort@sh.itjust.works -3 points 14 hours ago

Or you can have fun now and have no consequences.