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“You all” or “you both” or “you”or “you guys” seems less icky, like they don’t view you as a couple saying “you two”, like you are up to no good.

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[–] turtlepower@lemm.ee 3 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Try, "the two of you" or "the both of you".

[–] echo@lemmings.world 1 points 5 days ago

the both of you

Uh, no... just, "both of you".

[–] JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee 1 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I guess I was trying to frame my question as hearing someone say to a couple “you two” feels like they don’t view them as a couple but as 2 individuals or 2 people not as a couple. Just my feeling.

[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

'You two are a great couple'

What now...

[–] JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

When or if you ever addressed your parents, did you call and say- “How are you two doing?” I would not.

[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 days ago

I'd most likely say how are you guys doing, but I would have zero issue with you two. I find nothing offensive about it

[–] turtlepower@lemm.ee 1 points 5 days ago

"The both of them"